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    christina.lek is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Made second post, here is original


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    Default Re: I'm a girl-what is that u guys find difficult in approaching a woman?!

    An angel comes here to help us. Christina, could you read my posts and give your thoughts? Thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: I'm a girl-what is that u guys find difficult in approaching a woman?!

    I'm new here, and i can't find your previous posts...would it be too much of a bother if you summarized your basic points/wanderings here.?

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    Default Re: I'm a girl-what is that u guys find difficult in approaching a woman?!

    Quote Originally Posted by christina.lek View Post
    Soooo i'm a girl.! And i can't help but noticing how many times i've seen guys liking a girl but still, won't express it or won't express it good! Guys at bars or pubs checking out women, exchanging smiles and glances and yet won't go talk to her, or even in the closer environment, work etc.

    So what is it that you guys find hard when it comes to getting the girl you want? Where does this process go stuck?
    Hi Christina, it's called Approach Anxiety. All men suffer from it from it at some point of their lives and most learn to overcome it.

    It basically stems from a fear of being rejected or simply not knowing what to say. There's a tendency to picture the worst case scenario and how everything will go wrong when in actual fact even if they're not interested most women will let you down gently.

    Most of us eventually learn to overcome it.

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    Default Re: I'm a girl-what is that u guys find difficult in approaching a woman?!

    But i think in the end of the day everybody must learn how to deal with rejection, since all of us are going to experience one way or another.!

    you guys shouldn't be facing a woman's negative response as rejection, it should either be a lesson that would make you improve, a chance to learn from it and develop better skills...i hope you understand what i mean..!

    (PS thank you very much for the useful comment)

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    Default Re: I'm a girl-what is that u guys find difficult in approaching a woman?!

    No worries Christina,

    Yeah you are right, that's basically what this site aims to teach in the approach phase. It's not a personal rejection rather a rejection of that particular approach... if it went badly, calibrate and learn from it.

    Rejection is one of those things that gets easier the more you experience it and if you're a bloke you're going to experience a lot! until you get good.

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    Default Re: I'm a girl-what is that u guys find difficult in approaching a woman?!

    Quote Originally Posted by christina.lek View Post
    Soooo i'm a girl.! And i can't help but noticing how many times i've seen guys liking a girl but still, won't express it or won't express it good! Guys at bars or pubs checking out women, exchanging smiles and glances and yet won't go talk to her, or even in the closer environment, work etc.

    So what is it that you guys find hard when it comes to getting the girl you want? Where does this process go stuck?
    Are you trying to become a PUA? LOL, that would be a first.

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    Default Re: I'm a girl-what is that u guys find difficult in approaching a woman?!

    Quote Originally Posted by lilsting View Post
    Are you trying to become a PUA? LOL, that would be a first.
    Haha it would be so easy, all she'd have to learn is how to say hello and lean forward

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    Default Re: I'm a girl-what is that u guys find difficult in approaching a woman?!

    hahahahaha!!! No you guys i'm not becoming a PUA, others do it for me.! :P I'm just trying to understand some stuff.! And if i can, i can also help.!

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    Default Re: I'm a girl-what is that u guys find difficult in approaching a woman?!

    Haha not true Iv met some women that rival my game and I love it.....it's soo attractive when a woman can flirt and banter properly and really give you a run for your money rather than just sit and look pretty

    Linking x


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