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Thread: 18 year old Asian - new here

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    Default 18 year old Asian - new here

    Hey guys I'm 18 years old, vietnamese from east coast of Canada.

    I have no problem approaching girls but I do have some trouble with keeping a conversation going but it depends on the girl. Sometimes I keep it going just go with the flow (I ask a question based on her previous comment) and sometimes the girl just isn't responsive.

    Any general help / tips would be great

    I also want to add I used to be 300lbs I lost a lot of weight hitting the gym I'm now 233lbs. I used to have social anxiety could barely even talk to people so this is new to me.

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    Default Re: 18 year old Asian

    Congrats on making a couple of great choices.

    1/ Deciding to get fit and losing almost 70 lbs. When people are in better shape they feel much more confident and it shows in their body language. That's a huge positive when you are running game on the girls.

    2/ By joining this site your game will improve by leaps and bounds if you only add 1 new thing to your game every week.

    Here is a link to a thread that has some great ideas on how hold a conversation. Read the post written by the Swagman.

    http://www.puaforums.com/pua-openers...olo-ideas.html

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    Default Re: 18 year old Asian

    Quote Originally Posted by dave_xxx View Post
    Congrats on making a couple of great choices.

    1/ Deciding to get fit and losing almost 70 lbs. When people are in better shape they feel much more confident and it shows in their body language. That's a huge positive when you are running game on the girls.

    2/ By joining this site your game will improve by leaps and bounds if you only add 1 new thing to your game every week.

    Here is a link to a thread that has some great ideas on how hold a conversation. Read the post written by the Swagman.
    Thanks for the encouragement man, its a bit weird right now because the past years I was not social at all, being big all my life.

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    Default Re: 18 year old Asian - new here

    Update been out having fun this summer talked to lots of girls its becoming easy to talk to girls long as I don't put pressure on myself and just have a good time.

    I am looking for a relationship though and not just to fark around

    I've only found a couple girls that were cool and worth keeping around one of them my "friend" picked up after I brought her around so I said cya and the other I was too slow and she found a bf.

    I'm currently trying to hangout more with one of my friends I've known for a while we always used to play flirt around but it was just for fun, recently I started taking a liking to her shes into everything I am the only problem is she knows she has a hard time staying in a relationship so far shes been with mostly loser guys though.

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    Default Re: 18 year old Asian - new here

    Congrats man I think I just met my identical twin that I never met when I was in grade 5-6 I was obese too 200 pounds now I've slime's down. Your gonna fit well here in push fourms

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    Default Re: 18 year old Asian - new here

    Quote Originally Posted by BigT View Post
    Congrats man I think I just met my identical twin that I never met when I was in grade 5-6 I was obese too 200 pounds now I've slime's down. Your gonna fit well here in push fourms
    Thanks man, so I've been hanging out with the girl more lately took her racing and fishing last week.

    How should I ask her I'd like to be more now since before both of us thought nothing more than friends as far as I know. I've done some light Kino and she doesn't pull away or anything and there's some IOIs

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    Default Re: 18 year old Asian - new here

    Quote Originally Posted by Pholicious View Post
    Thanks man, so I've been hanging out with the girl more lately took her racing and fishing last week.

    How should I ask her I'd like to be more now since before both of us thought nothing more than friends as far as I know. I've done some light Kino and she doesn't pull away or anything and there's some IOIs
    Honestly I would get into more kino and not ask her out directly just tell her to hang at an movie theater make it look like a date but Dont say its a date. Basically make all your interactions look like your dating her but tease her and tell her that your not. Also once you guys do start dating rememberb
    Let her do her own shit it's bad when you ask them where they are or what they are doing every hour. Good luck!
    I may be a starter but I like to help whatever ways I can

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    Default Re: 18 year old Asian - new here

    Quote Originally Posted by BigT View Post
    Honestly I would get into more Kino and not ask her out directly just tell her to hang at an movie theater make it look like a date but Dont say its a date. Basically make all your interactions look like your dating her but tease her and tell her that your not. Also once you guys do start dating rememberb
    Let her do her own sh1t it's bad when you ask them where they are or what they are doing every hour. Good luck!
    Thanks for the tips man I've been easing the kino since we been friends for a while but I'll escalate it more, and yea that's what I've been doing we always do something fun or go out with our friends. Shes always telling me about guys being too needy and not giving her room so I've been trying my best to balancing it

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    Default Re: 18 year old Asian - new here

    Quote Originally Posted by Pholicious View Post
    Thanks for the tips man I've been easing the Kino since we been friends for a while but I'll escalate it more, and yea that's what I've been doing we always do something fun or go out with our friends. Shes always telling me about guys being too needy and not giving her room so I've been trying my best to balancing it
    I think you know what to do. If you do end up dating just Dont text them and tell them not to hang with a guy or shit. Story time .
    So there was this friend that was a girl that I hung out with (She's a HB9 but I considered her as a friend) . somehow she never told her boyfriend about me and one day he asked and eventually said not to hang out with me. But in that course of 2 days we got to become closer of friends till the point where I treated her like a sister.

    The moral of the story is girls usually do the opposite of what you tell them and they are probably harder to understand that figuring out what happens before the big bang
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