Re: Coworker!! Failed kiss!! What next!?
Don't do the necklace thing next time. I know you wanted to give it to her but it was a bit too nice of you.
You said: "I wanted to give her the necklace so that she can think of me." That's a false attitude. If she likes you, she's thinking about you anyway. You don't need to force this thought by giving her a necklace.
Overall it looked good to me, but that necklace thing really turned things off. You picked an early time to give it to her. In my opinion, it implied that it's a symbol that she belongs to you. And that implication freaked her out because she just barely knows you.
I can see that the attraction is there, but I can't see the comfort I'm looking for. Sometimes 2-3 weeks is not enough to build comfort. It often depends on the chick but it usually depends on your pace and your intentions. I think you got caught up with the idea of kissing, kinoing her too much, that you forgot to build some friendly comfort, which is actually essential in your case since it's not night game and there aren't any time constraints.
Hope you get the idea, good luck,
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