Gents - I'm completely new to this forum (found it yesterday after being intrigued by reading The Game).

A bit of my background: I'm 35, work as an engineer, and have been divorced for almost a year... I jumped into a 4 month relationship almost immediately after the ink was dry on the divorce and have been totally back and forth with this woman since January - we've tried to be "just friends" but end up sleeping together. She's my one-itis...

I've dated 6 women over the last 3-4 months and while it's been fun, I find that I struggle with keeping relationships casual... It's like once I decide that they aren't marrying material, I bounce. I want to learn to be more casual and find women I can be friends with and sexual with and not feel like I'm using them. I want to learn how to establish stronger relationships with people in general (not just women I want to date or have sex with) and get out of some of my self-destructive behaviors that I've been engaged in over the last 6 months.

Anyway, I'm glad to be here and look forward to learning from all of you.