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    Default 20 yr Old Virgin in University

    Hello, I am a 20 year old Asian-American attending a large university.

    I have never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, and it has begun to sink in how pathetic I really feel. I remember when I was in middle school thinking, "no way I'll be a virgin by the time I get to college" yet here I am. I decided to change:

    The past year has been a transformation year for me, I've begin working out much more, pay more attention to my clothing and appearance, and learned to be much more confident in talking and approaching to women.

    I mean, I now catch girls staring at me at parties or when I'm walking to class, and girls actually start showing interest in me now! I'm not an awkward or anxious person - I can approach, introduce, and hold a conversation now.

    I'll tell you guys what I am looking for and hopefully y'all can point me to some readings or posts that will help: I didn't save myself all this time just to hook up with some slut, I want to meet an intelligent and beautiful girl who I can actually respect. I'm more than willing to enter a relationship, and would actually revel at the chance to take a girl out sometime. When I am at a party, I don't go for those one-night stand girls - I strike up a conversation with a girl I am interested in, occasionally get a number or so, but then I hit the wall! The next day I just don't know what to say: am I just the dude from the party? Is she still into me, or was she ever into me? Should I ask on a date, or invite to the next party?

    I'm tired of being alone, to be completely honest. It really sucks, I've got a lotta love to give to some lucky girl - just gotta find her.

    Thanks and looking forward to upping my game.

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    Default Re: 20 yr Old Virgin in University

    Congrats on your new life.

    Without going into too much ranting, I'm gonna give you a simple & tiny advice.

    Try meeting girls outside of the clubs. If you want that intelligent and beautiful girl don't just search them in clubs. Try libraries, concert venues, comic book stores, you name 'em. Don't limit your options. Not all girls go to the clubs. The world is your playground, not just the clubs.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: 20 yr Old Virgin in University

    Wolf is setting you on the right track right now. You can't Isolate yourself to one venue, because if you leave that environment you break down completely. You have to remain adaptable and flexible when it comes to the game.

    As for recommended readings, and given the information on your problems that you have provided, I would recommend checking out the Love Systems Texting Guide. It covers everything that you are having problems with and that you are confused about concerning your text game.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: 20 yr Old Virgin in University

    I was gonna comment but @wolf and @swagman put you on the right track. Good job guys...and @birdsonfire, awesome life transformation and stick with it. Your girl is out there somewhere, you just gotta find her.
    "She'll forgive you for being a man...but she WON'T forgive you for being a p*ssy"


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