Hello, I am a 20 year old Asian-American attending a large university.
I have never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, and it has begun to sink in how pathetic I really feel. I remember when I was in middle school thinking, "no way I'll be a virgin by the time I get to college" yet here I am. I decided to change:
The past year has been a transformation year for me, I've begin working out much more, pay more attention to my clothing and appearance, and learned to be much more confident in talking and approaching to women.
I mean, I now catch girls staring at me at parties or when I'm walking to class, and girls actually start showing interest in me now! I'm not an awkward or anxious person - I can approach, introduce, and hold a conversation now.
I'll tell you guys what I am looking for and hopefully y'all can point me to some readings or posts that will help: I didn't save myself all this time just to hook up with some slut, I want to meet an intelligent and beautiful girl who I can actually respect. I'm more than willing to enter a relationship, and would actually revel at the chance to take a girl out sometime. When I am at a party, I don't go for those one-night stand girls - I strike up a conversation with a girl I am interested in, occasionally get a number or so, but then I hit the wall! The next day I just don't know what to say: am I just the dude from the party? Is she still into me, or was she ever into me? Should I ask on a date, or invite to the next party?
I'm tired of being alone, to be completely honest. It really sucks, I've got a lotta love to give to some lucky girl - just gotta find her.
Thanks and looking forward to upping my game.