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    Question Newbie needs help getting started

    The name is Light from Jozi South Africa. I am 21 and COMPLETELY NEW to the world of PUA. I recently read "The Game" and with the bits of information, I have already seen some improvents to mu life (although still lacking in the women department)
    so o was wondering of anybody could give me some tips on where to start so that i can start improving my game?
    Thanks sooo much for thos website!

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    Default Re: Newbie needs help getting started

    Where are you at with your abilities?

    What have you accomplished?
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: Newbie needs help getting started

    well I am shy , but i have been trying to approach women where ever I go (mall, movies, clubs etc)
    I am still skeptical about using openers on sets until i get more confidence. But the main problem is keeping conversation (I am useless at small talk) but i am currently working on my aa and have so far only had 3 girlfriends.

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    Default Re: Newbie needs help getting started

    I have the perfect fix.

    I presume you go grocery shopping. When you do, strike up a conversation with the person behind you. Feel free to also give some verbiage to those in front of you, but really try to get some back and forth with those behind you (preferably women). It doesn't matter if they are young or old, fat or skinny, attractive or not, mothers or single.

    Why do I want you to talk to those behind you? Simple. I want you to learn to walk away from the conversation. Many men are afraid to leave a good thing and end up messing up the encounter because they over-stayed their welcome. With this, you talk to a woman and leave on your terms. You leave when you are finished. Sure, it's a captive audience, it's an exercise everyone can benefit from.

    What do you talk about? Look around. Here's some examples:
    -Oh, look! She has Twinkies on the belt, "Twinkies! I love those! I'm so glad they're back on the shelves. I wonder if they'll taste as good as they did before they stopped production." Unless she's a heartless wench, she'll respond. Just roll with it.
    -Pick up two types of Tic Tacs, ask her which flavor she recommends you buy your girlfriend. It doesn't matter you are single. This also gives a little bit of practice in lying (BS'ing).

    Feel free to get the cashier involved. I was a cashier through high school. I loved interacting with people. It wasn't uncommon for my line to be longer than the other checkers'. I was fun. People had fun. Of course, you can't check the three-way box if you get a killer conversation with a female cashier and the female customer behind you; not even if they're smoking hot and wearing bikinis; however, if you can be comfortable talking to these two, having a good time (in a very short amount of time), and leave them wanting more, it is much easier when you get to the club.

    Give it a shot. I talk to people everywhere. My conversation is natural, no matter who I'm talking to, or under which circumstances. I can talk someone into going to jail without fighting as easy as I can order a pizza or talk to a pretty woman. I utilize the supermarket exercise all the time.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: Newbie needs help getting started

    Check out:

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-approac...-approach.html

    I posted about the grocery store exercise a couple of years ago, here (it is better stated, I've been up all night):
    http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...roach-her.html
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: Newbie needs help getting started

    Light PM me.

    Plus 30 characters


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