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Thread: New here. Mid 20's still live at home....

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    Default New here. Mid 20's still live at home....

    Hey everyone. Im pretty new to this. Have not been great with women in the past however this is an area of my life I have decided to tackle once and for all. My aim is to have lots of fun with it but to also treat it seriously as a skill to be learned (like a sport). Im reading lots and have done some approaches and am getting better and better.

    Anyways Im 27 and still live at home since this allows me to save up for a place and pay off school debts. What sorts of limitations does this present (cant really just bring home new girls all of the sudden as this would be awkward with parents)

    Any advice in this situation would be great!

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    Default Re: New here. Mid 20's still live at home....

    simple answer: take the girl to her place or to your car or even sneak her into your parents house it really doesn't limit you all that much.

    however, it can be seen as a dlv if you aren't at least trying for better, when girls ask about it, tell them you live with your parents to take care of them and how you're close with your parents (that way you turn a potential dlv into multiple dhv's) also if they ask about it, tell them about your future plans of one day moving out and having a nice apartment or home in a good part of town you've always dreamed about (that way you show that you have future ambitions witch is a dhv as well)

    its really all about how you present it

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    Default Re: New here. Mid 20's still live at home....

    Me personally, I'm a bit younger so girls always understand that I can't bring them to my place. I'm 22 and live with my parents (and even share a room with my sister). That's never been something that girls cared too much about. My car is the go-to place whenever I want to get freaky with a lady. Usually I take them out, whatever place that may be, make out during the date (important), then on the way back either bring them to a parking lot or just park in my/her neighborhood. I used to go to the park but been caught too many times by cops so I bring them to dark parking lots/residential parking instead.

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    Default Re: New here. Mid 20's still live at home....

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    simple answer: take the girl to her place or to your car or even sneak her into your parents house it really doesn't limit you all that much.

    however, it can be seen as a dlv if you aren't at least trying for better, when girls ask about it, tell them you live with your parents to take care of them and how you're close with your parents (that way you turn a potential dlv into multiple dhv's) also if they ask about it, tell them about your future plans of one day moving out and having a nice apartment or home in a good part of town you've always dreamed about (that way you show that you have future ambitions witch is a dhv as well)

    its really all about how you present it
    Thanks allot (to both of you) This is very useful advice about turning a dlv into multiple dhv's as those things you mentioned are actually true! I am very close with my parents and do take care of them in many ways as well as the fact that my goal is to move out into an apartment that corresponds to a lifestyle that I want (nice place in good bustling area).

    Good call here cheers

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    Default Re: New here. Mid 20's still live at home....

    Depending on where you live, you can get hotel rooms reasonably cheap especially if you book in advance. You could maybe book a room and make a goal to go out, get a woman and take her back there?

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    Default Re: New here. Mid 20's still live at home....

    Quote Originally Posted by RockNRollOutlaw View Post
    Depending on where you live, you can get hotel rooms reasonably cheap especially if you book in advance. You could maybe book a room and make a goal to go out, get a woman and take her back there?
    So when your talking hotels your talking about booking one, going out and finding a girl then bringing her back right? Or getting a few dates then bringing up "gets get a hotel..." Doesnt the last one seem awkward and a mood killer?

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    Default Re: New here. Mid 20's still live at home....

    Depending on where you live, you can get hotel rooms reasonably cheap especially if you book in advance. You could maybe book a room and make a goal to go out, get a woman and take her back there?
    honestly i prefer the car over a hotel room, i had a friend who was almost certain that he would get laid, so he rented a hotel room for him and his girl, however that night he failed to beat her LMR after almost 4 hours of making out (she was a virgin and was very sintamental about it and he didn't know) he ended up going back to his moms appartment defeated the lesson to be learned is to never pay too much for sex, and renting a hotel room is paying too much for sex, unless your going on vacation somewhere with a girl you've already slept with.

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    Default Re: New here. Mid 20's still live at home....

    Quote Originally Posted by hensp View Post
    So when your talking hotels your talking about booking one, going out and finding a girl then bringing her back right? Or getting a few dates then bringing up "gets get a hotel..." Doesnt the last one seem awkward and a mood killer?
    If you have been out with a date with a girl for a few dates and both of you want to be alone for the night, a hotel room would be an ideal solution. I don't have this problem as I have my own place and I live alone but maybe some of the experts on here who are living with somebody but are picking up on the side can give better advice.

    I'll explain what I mean by booking a room, going out and picking up a girl to take her there. Many moons ago, before I was hanging about the friends I mentioned in my intro post, I had previously another circle of guys whom I had met at the weekend as wingman. We would go to the local cattle-market where there its was every man for himself. If you didn't talk to girls you were on your own. Also there the mickey taking if you didn't pickup girls and of course if you failing to get anywhere with them. With this, you certainly did get out there and kept going throughout the night. You would aim for high HB's and if you weren't successful, you would lower your sights until you were going for the Ten to two'ers (woman who are still on their own 10 minutes before the club closed). You could also go to the wire and try to pickup girls after clubs were closed. You weren't always successful but you sometimes get consolation prizes like tagging along to parties and increasing your social circle where you meet the woman next time your out (Of course this works the other way where you get a reputation as a whore-master). The thing I am trying to point out is that with the motivation, willingness to lower your sights if need be as well as a bit of luck you can pickup a girl for a night. This is one of the reasons why I joined this site to get tips of motivation which I believe is part of the inner game. As I mentioned, I am just getting back into this so one of the experts can give better advice on whether this is a good strategy to take.

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    Default Re: New here. Mid 20's still live at home....

    thanks everyone ! Time to get the real practice in


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