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    Default Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    Sexmartian your response cleary shows you were a bit affected(her Freeze Out).when you communicate on that level you may flip the power dynamic.you are supposed to be having fun remember..here it best to arrange a meetup or possibly talk to her for a bit and then call and ask her out later.a response?engage her on the phone if you may.

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    Cool Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    Yes I am into her I'm not denying that. Call her and say what? How do I put a stop to her MIA? Should I just forget about it or talk to her about it? The last thing she text was she miss my sexy lips I still haven't responded..need some good tips no negativity lol Help?!

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    Default Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    Your setting yourself up for heartache in my opinion.

    Text this. "When can the 2 of us get together? I'd take you to a movie, but your the type that would be talking in my ear the whole time"

    This way, your not saying "I want to see you". You are saying "Us, as in we, as in both of you". You are taking the "I" out of it.

    The second part, is going past her making some excuse of NOT getting together. You are already putting the idea of her at a movie talking into your ear. This is good cuz your teasing her, she will either say, "What I don't talk in movies, or she will throw it back at you and say something about "You talk more than me, blah, blah, blah."

    Don't get into a text-athon. Call her and simply ask, when are you free this week. When she gives day, make plans. NOT a movie though. You just sit there and don't communicate. Go bowling where you can get some High 5's going on and start some Kino. Don't bring up the MIA stuff. Have sex first. Bringing it up at all will show weakness. Always let the girl bring up "Where is this going".

    But dude, I don't believe this chick is the right one. Why would you want to sit around and wait for a chick who disses you and goes MIA.

    I guess you could bring it up jokingly. Like when you say good bye, you could say, "How is james bond?" She will be what? "Aren't you a secret agent? I guess I'll see you in 2 days, or a week, or a month, however long your assignment is. Your new name is MIA (Pronounced Mi-Ah" And just clown about it. See what she says. But play it like you don't care.

    Take some or leave some. Let us know how things work out. This chick is NOT GF material. Good luck.

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    Default Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    tell her about interesting things that happened to you.tell her how you met this really friendly girl who was really nice to you. u were both heading the same direction but she got you there(happened to me past)when you were parting there was this 3 secs silence you looked into her eyes to thank her and they were really bright.it took a lot not to take her number.as you were about to she handed you her phone.



    in that dyn i had to num close cuz it was a public place and she worked there.met her in that vicinity.had to walk a bit and take a few elevators there.
    bottom line things went well.

    use that in your dynamic.text if you may.
    the issue would be your transitioning
    reply to that text would be

    Hmm you knoe what they say about

    throw in this line starting with met then follow with it.

    when its done you may add this to the ending

    something else apart from what you are saying.knoe you wont input a needy line here...

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    Cool Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    Easy flow, I tried what you said I text her "When can the 2 of us get together? I'd take you to a movie, but your the type that would be talking in my ear the whole time"
    And she said "Actually im not that type." So she answered the text back but..
    I called her and no answer..it's been hours now and nothing. She on facebook log on. She post this on facebook earlier " I used to be sad that you were no longer in my life, guess I've finally outgrown you. Thankful for the amazing people in my life, you know who you are " She got a few likes and comments from family members, thats about it. What do think was her reason behind this?
    Just to give you an idea where her state of minds is. Easy Flow help me out here..that was your line and I got no respond. I thought it was good too but she's definitely playing games. I think she thinks I'm playings games and we're going back and forth. I know she likes me but chances are she's talking to multiple guys, she cute. Easy how do I come back from this or is it better to just fall back? Give me something guys ...

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    Default Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    I'm glad she responded, it takes some of the Tension off. However, her text was a little cold, she didn't invite a response.

    It's like your wheels are spinning, but your not moving forward. If a girl wants to see you, she will put herself into your orbit. They will make it easy. She is being cold, I don't think it is a game. People can't fake attraction, and I don't care what any PUA dude says, if a girl is not into you, she is not into you, no matter how much game they think they have.

    As for the facebook post, you could sit there all night playing out different scenarios. To be honest, I don't think it refers to you. I think, she was involved with some guy, and was coming to you when things were going bad with him. Some people can't be alone.

    Since you called her, and she didn't answer, I don't suggest calling again. Wait at least 1 week to reach out again. If she contacts you before that DON'T JUMP at it right away. If she contacts after 7 pm. Wait till the next day to respond.
    Any text you get from her, respond in a playful way.

    If she is getting over some other dude, you might be the rebound guy, which is not a good place to be. I've been there. Once her feelings for the other dude go away, she will re-asses her life and be like "This current guy is OK, but he is not someone I would normally date" Then she drops you, cuz she only needed some attention to help mend her broken heart. You get left with a hurt heart and your dick in your hand.

    Keep living your life, keep going out, either sports, night clubs, keep talking to girls. Don't sit and wait for her to text/call. Remember you are the prize, not her.

    I keep saying this, but dude, I don't think she is the one. If she does call, think of it as her wanting to see you. Make a date, hang out, have fun, and hook up. Don't over complicate things. IF she doesn't want to make a date, then say "Cool, I gotta go, give me a call when you change your mind"

    Youtube "Coach Corey Wayne". The dude is awesome, 1200 videos, all about guys in your situation. You will get some really good insight. The dude has helped me.

    But I think this chick is trouble.

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    Red face Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    Thanks man. I appreciate your help. Really good stuff! I thinks she thinks I'm playing games cause she asked me stuff like do you use that line with other girls and I've answered her " just practicing on you" Or she made comments likes she doesn't like the way I talk to her sometime" like she thinks I'm gaming her. We even hung out one time and my ex showed up at the spot. My ex was like this is what you left me for and told her i was with her whiling being with her type of thing. I could tell that made her jealous a bit because the next day she came over for more sex. On facebook I always have more then 20 likes, mostly girls commenting, and so she probably thinks I'm player. She may be faking some attraction and only interested in sex. I'm pretty much mirroring her now. I agree, I probably am the rebound guy. That's what it looks like. But your right I just got to have fun and not take this chick too seriously. I got a couple other girls on stand by. Lots more fish at sea. I will check out that "Coach Corey Wayne" for sure. Thanks! i love this pua sh1t man! Quick question when you have a chance..Do you think at anytime of contact or whiling hanging out with her I should call her out on her behavior or just kind of tease her about her mia? I like the Miah. I plan to use that or should I hold back from the urge to say something. I have a feeling this won't be the last time I hear from her because I had her screaming in the bedroom and she's going to want more soon.

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    Default Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    problem seems to be compounding.

    "attraction is created" and may be amplified over and over again. depending on the situation

    its either she has it or doesn't.one may trigger it.

    never come off as too smooth or cheesy.it doesn't help in dyn.
    sometimes not handling one simple situation well may lead things disarray somewhat.

    take what you want be cautious of The Vibe you put across.resist using negs or things you do when qualifying a girl preliminary.it called overgaming and its BAD sort of..

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    Default Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    Real Talk Thanks for the words of wisdom Mr. Hardrock. You think I should just be strait up with her and not game her as much maybe it's too much..

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    Default Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    Not saying don't be the attractive guy in her life but then..
    ur problem in your dynamic seems to stem from the fact that she may have been seeing another guy and how to save face.be unfazed you are not a back peddle.you are not exclusive.

    Moving on from that handle her current situation as a shit test.just send her a text that indicates in your situation you are unaffected.stop worrying about her online activity and move on.

    " lol bet that slided me off .."

    Go ahead with your bouts and when you see her reengage...don't try calling her. u may practice your game more.


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