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Thread: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

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    Cool Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    I met this girl about a year ago. I gamed her for like two weeks, had sex, the next day I text her, no answer, and she was gone for months.
    About 7 weeks ago she found me on Facebook and she friend requested me, so I accepted. She message me and was apologizing for disappearing. It was a stupid decision she made, she said. I didn't make this easy, I had her work for this a little, this time I wasn't as nice. She really wanted to see me, so I invited her over. She came, brought movies, we ate dinner and had sex a few times through out the night. This continue for about three weeks. She would spend the night through out the week. The sex was incredible for both of us. I really started to like this girl. She wanted me to meet her friends, so we went out a few times. I met her friends, we all got along great. She said they really like me and she doesn't do that often.
    Last week, Wednesday night, she spend the night, we have sex and cuddle. It was like perfect. Thursday morning she gave me a kiss and left. Saturday, I texted her at like 3pm " Come over I want to tie you to my bed" she replied " U r crazy" I responded with " I prefer weird or excentric, but I am definitely not mundane and I am proud of it, it's a lot more fun" No respond. So I text her back at 7:30pm "If your too busy, do you want to hang out another day?" Then she replied " I guess...im going to a party tonight.." So I said "Hey no biggie... catch you another time.."
    She wasn't being responsive. So I began my Freeze Out for one week. I didn't hear from her after 7 days so I reinitiated contact but played it cool. I didn't want her to think I was sulking So I text her " Babe, What are you doing? "
    Her " Getting some food with friends" I'm happy because she responded at this point atleast. And then she says " U haven't called me in like 2 weeks..." (It was actually one week, but I didn't say anything) I text her back and said "I've been really busy with school and work." No respond. This was at 4pm today. I waited till 7:30pm tonight and text her "Stop being such a baby...I didn't do anything wrong." No respond. I shouldn't have to explain my self to her. My intuition tells me she's playing games. Is she really upset for the one week freeze out or is it bullshit. There may be another guy in the picture. Maybe she has lost interest. So soon? I don't don't know. Should I freeze her out again and wait till she calls me, should I trying getting her jealous through Facebook or is there something I could say to her...I'm a little disappointed.. What's Next..
    What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    I prefer weird or excentric, but I am definitely not mundane and I am proud of it, it's a lot more fun
    Here it may have framed it as if what she had been doing for you was not fun and you had a better idea all along and you were not honest about it.

    " Come over I want to tie you to my bed"
    This was not the best way of showing intent sexually it kind of sounded off as in all you wanted was that.plus that comeback 'crazy' was a Sh1t Test.when ever you find yourself in that situation and theres no girl around(cuz you obviously don't want just any woman) do another activity sort of.something over the top as video games will do or even holding it and going to pick a woman up it doesn't have lead there yet,so next time you could phone another one too.be safe!!


    There were times you did well in this dynamic but then also you made a few mistakes.its like you got her back to like you and you slipped.Don't try to make her jealous much.infact it best to move ahead for now and engage later.

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    Cool Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    I understand what your saying. Maybe I came off too strong. Bottom line is she slept in my house for a few weeks. We had sex multiple times. What a coincident that the last two times I reinitiated contact she doing something with her friends. I didn't say anything negative to her. It's obvious she taking to some else. You think she's really mad? She did the same thing a year ago, just disappeared.

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    Default Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    Nope she may not be mad.theres probably another guy in the picture.if you must engage don't come from the place where she was sort of affected regardless of the attraction she may have felt previously.

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    Default Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    So get this, After no response on Saturday, so I decided to freeze her out once again. This time my plan was not to call her period. And so Sunday went by no call and now today I get a text from her and she say "Do you always talk to people that way? I never said that you did anything wrong" Just what I wanted. My plan was to not text her back and make her work for this a little. Again, she text me and said "Btw I miss your sexy lips " I chose not to respond. I think I should wait to see if she tries one more time to contact me in the next few days, so she can feel what I felt missing her and she never responded to my text. How do you guys think I should respond...?

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    Default Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    I think she might have a boy friend. When you first met she was MIA for 7 months. Then the 2 of you got hot for each other, that's awesome. I personally don't think it's any issue with you, I think she is either on and off with another guy, and comes to you for sex and affection, then when she misses him, she is gone again. I don't know for sure, but I get the impression you have feelings for her, which is fine, but look how you are being treated. You have to get the emotions, and your dick, out of the way, and look at this logically. Do you wanna carry on with this girl like this for months on end? You deserve better Bro.

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    Default Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    It sounds like she may be seeing someone else (like several other people have said), but as far as freezing out goes...as far as I'm aware the whole idea is to show her you're not emotionally affected by what she does right? But your attitude of trying to "show her how you felt" is really just petulant revenge. You're clearly affected. And she probably knows it.

    I'd drop that tactic (at least as far as USING IT as a tactic), and try something else.

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    Red face Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    I know she knows but I got to punish her. She's got to learn that this is unacceptable. By withdrawing my attention it should communicate that I'm not going to put up with her crap. I know she miss me. Chances are she probably has another guy but that other guy probably is not a pua. I do like her a lot but this is my chance to put pua skills to the test. I just want to make sure I take the right steps. I enjoy the challenge. Help me guys. I haven't text her back yet...should I wait or text her?

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    Default Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    Should I disqualify her. Say this like "I'm not sure about you yet" or "I don't hang with girl who can't be bothered to text back at a reasonable time frame." Then maybe "Make it up to me" What do you think?

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    Default Re: Freeze Out GONE BAD? NEED HELP!

    I think your beyond the PUA part of your relationship. This girl clearly is not into you as much as you are into her. You are training her, that she can go MIA, and then dial you up when she needs a stiff one, and you eventually let her in.

    Here is a PUA tactic. If you text or call a girl, DO NOT contact again, until she initiates. You will come across as needy. If you do not hear from her, maybe a week later, try again. If you don't hear anything, leave it alone. If she contacts you, set up a date. Don't be on the phone for more than 5 minutes, and don't have a text-athon.

    I know your into this chick, but from what I have read, she is not into you as much as you are into her.

    Who ever cares less in the relationship has the power.

    Go out, meet other people. If you hear from her, which you probably will, set up a date. But do not initiate contact.

    This is only going to go on for months. And in the end, your gonna feel like sh1t.


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