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Thread: Alcohol helping me pickup girls easier?

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    Question Alcohol helping me pickup girls easier?

    Hi,

    I am new to the PUA world, never heard of it until my friend passed the The Game bible on to me. Just recently I have been having major success in Las Vegas picking up girls.

    My main flaw is Approach Anxiety when hitting up on girls. But when I am on Ecstasy, the aa disappears and getting girls is like 2nd nature. I am currently trying to calm my AA down and be able to approach girls being sober, but have been unsuccessful due to my emotions and thought process

    Does anybody else have this problem?

    -Pimpbee

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    Default Re: Alcohol helping me pickup girls easier?

    Can't say that I do, when I feel more in control, I am more in control. I drink and enjoy it but in bars and clubs its more of an accessory than it is a necessity to get me in a woman's bubble, yes it takes off the edge but too much can lead to a bad night. I advise you try day game to get you out of that atmosphere and hone your skills a lil bit, then return after a while and practice your night game techniques.

    Remember in order to get over the anxiety you need to put yourself in control and take advantage of your opportunities.
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    Default Re: Alcohol helping me pickup girls easier?

    I have experience gaming under the influence (both alcohol and weed) and my only advise is, like Devious said, keep it an accessory, not a necessity. If my buddies and I are going out to a bar to game, then we'll probably pregame (beer or 3) at one of our houses. You shouldn't rely on substances to hold your hand with women though.
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    Default Re: Alcohol helping me pickup girls easier?

    I drink occasionally, but never to the point of being drunk. I don't find alcohol all that appealing so I typically don't drink. If I do drink though, I stop as soon as I get buzzed even a little. I also have never tried or done drugs. I approach and pick up girls just fine. That stuff is not a necessity and if used as a crutch can be detrimental to your progress.

    Live to become the best version of yourself, and pursue excellence in anything you do. All you have to do is practice if you want to overcome such things as drugs and alcohol as a crutch to pick up women. Sure you may get rejected, but if you want to see honest growth, and actually hone in on your skills, it's a necessity.

    Go out, get rejected, and learn. You'll find that once you can succeed this way, life will become more rewarding.

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    Default Re: Alcohol helping me pickup girls easier?

    Chemicals, intoxicants, and alcohol are good for one thing, covering up a problem that is only going to come back.

    day game and practice approaching are the only fixes for aa. Even a failed approach is better those you learn something from.

    Otherwise all you are doing is trying to stop the titanic from sinking with a roll of duct tape, which I think is rather counter productive.
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    Default Re: Alcohol helping me pickup girls easier?

    Quote Originally Posted by hometownextra View Post
    Chemicals, intoxicants, and alcohol are good for one thing, covering up a problem that is only going to come back.

    day game and practice approaching are the only fixes for aa. Even a failed approach is better those you learn something from.

    Otherwise all you are doing is trying to stop the titanic from sinking with a roll of duct tape, which I think is rather counter productive.
    Props to hometownextra. Completely agree. Any time I'm drinking, my focus is slightly less tuned. Also, it's masking a problem not fixing it. Start with Hired Guns and functional openers (what time is it? Where is the bathroom?) and you'll ease yourself into higher pressure situations

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    Default Re: Alcohol helping me pickup girls easier?

    I've slowed down on the drinking myself. But man did I use to love it. If I was grabbin a nice drunk, without losing all motor function, I was well on my way to getting laid. Though, as stated above, it is quite the crutch. And fark that hang over. I've never tried E but I can't imagine the crash being an sort of pleasant. Just try this sh1t without the alci for a while. Then, you can wane it in a little and have some real fun

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    My worst crash and burns where when I was sh1t faced
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Alcohol helping me pickup girls easier?

    Thank you for all the replies. I still have aa and trying breathing methods and not thinking so much when I see a hot girl. Alot of times my 3 second rule turns into minutes which then turns to a failed attempt.

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    Default Re: Alcohol helping me pickup girls easier?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pimpbee View Post
    Thank you for all the replies. I still have aa and trying breathing methods and not thinking so much when I see a hot girl. Alot of times my 3 second rule turns into minutes which then turns to a failed attempt.
    Do you ever try social freedom exercises? Personally, not a huge fan, but I have seen them help guys.


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