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    Default Hey, I'm twentynine.

    Yes that's also my age, but it's also my favorite number so get off my back!

    Anyways my name is Clint. I'm Canadian and I've been single for about 3 months after a long relationship. I had a very rough breakup, I felt like I was dying on the inside for the first 6 weeks of being back on my own. I loved her with all of my being and it was extremely difficult to let go.. I slept on the couch for over a month, I couldn't even sleep in my own bed. I decided though, that I wasn't going to let it ruin me, and I was gonna go back to the man I was before I met her.. Get back into game, and back into meeting women. Lots of women. Quality women.. As I feel I have a lot to offer. I have a good job, a nice place, I'm talented, good looking and girls like me. So fark it, I've always been good with the opposite sex, but I want to be better and enjoy the single life to the fullest extent.

    I've spent the last month or so reading online, mostly through these forums, about different types of game... Online game, text game, phone game, Direct Game, Indirect Game etc etc.. Watching videos online by Mystery, reading books by Mystery and Style, and I've tried some things out. I've actually already had quite a bit of success in this small amount of time.

    I am extremely intrigued by the social dynamics involved in dealing with women. Meeting them, talking to them, building attraction, courting them etc. It's all fascinating to me. I love women.. We all do and I think that's why we are here, and why we do this.

    I feel like I owe something back. To talk about my experiences, what I've learned from them, and what I hope to learn.. And to hopefully help some other aspiring PUA's along the way, and to do everything I can to make that happen.

    I'm happy to be here, and I feel I am in good company.


    Cheers,

    - twentynine

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    Default Re: Hey, I'm twentynine.

    seriously dude stick with Direct Game, if you could pull it off before, then you will be able to have success with it again, honestly I feel that mystery method has something left to be desired. I got away from it after it cost me a relationship (I used negs, and it seemed like dis-interest to the girl)

    direct game is soo much simpler, even though I am now fairly good at Indirect Game, it has a larger likelihood that you will be misunderstood. vs with direct game there is no misunderstanding, you want her and she knows it.

    I suggest you not read too much into pua, some guys really let it go to their heads and then overthink stupid stuff when they should be more in the moment expressing themselves freely.

    simply put, don't complicate things more than you should, stick with what works best for you and don't be like me and read everything you can get your hands on. live experience is a far greater teacher than any book you will ever read.

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    Default Re: Hey, I'm twentynine.

    You touched on something I actually haven't seen or heard many people talk about. Acting natural.

    I've always found that just being natural and being myself works best. I throw in some negs etc and some very small "routines" - if you could even call them that - but for the most part I just act natural, and it works great. Sometimes just being charming and funny, and showing you aren't needy and/or a pussy, is more than enough I think.

    Thanks for the input, meteora!

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    Default Re: Hey, I'm twentynine.

    Quote Originally Posted by twentynine View Post
    You touched on something I actually haven't seen or heard many people talk about. Acting natural.

    I've always found that just being natural and being myself works best. I throw in some negs etc and some very small "routines" - if you could even call them that - but for the most part I just act natural, and it works great. Sometimes just being charming and funny, and showing you aren't needy and/or a pussy, is more than enough I think.

    Thanks for the input, meteora!
    I really like that you want to Act Natural and be good with women. I found that I want to always improve the results of each interaction I have with women. I'm still being myself, but communicating in a way that gets me closer to the results that I want. Find the way that works best for you and never stop learning.

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    Default Re: Hey, I'm twentynine.

    You touched on something I actually haven't seen or heard many people talk about. Acting natural.

    I've always found that just being natural and being myself works best. I throw in some negs etc and some very small "routines" - if you could even call them that - but for the most part I just act natural, and it works great. Sometimes just being charming and funny, and showing you aren't needy and/or a pussy, is more than enough I think.

    Thanks for the input, meteora!

    stay natural if you can, all too often guys read into pua too much and take the advice word for word. they become like robots, stiff and un-natural.

    being at least somewhat normal is very important when going after girls. it is easy to get caught up in pua and end up making dumb mistakes because you overthink.

    getting woman should be a fairly simple process;be direct, talk about yourself, make her laugh,get her to open up, build a sense of comfort, and sexualy escalate.

    Indirect Game can get a little more complicated, but its actually very similar, the only difference is that you build some comfort before going direct (and yes if you want sex you will have to be bold and direct at some point)

    with indirect game, the key mistake that most guys make is that they overuse negs and the girl sees it as dis-interest. (I had this problem a year ago) the only appropriate time to use negs is if the girl is being mean to you, or if you really are dis-interested.

    learn to confidently express your every emotion and woman will love you for it. honesty should be the core of your game. many guys simply keep there feelings to themselves, don't be one of those guys.

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    Default Re: Hey, I'm twentynine.

    Fantatic advice, and I agree with everything you are saying..

    I definitely am not one to over-do it, if anything it's the opposite.. Sometimes I feel like I'm being TOO natural and just being myself and it just falls into my lap.. So you are absolutely 100% correct.

    Thanks for taking the time to reply!

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    Default Re: Hey, I'm twentynine.

    Quote Originally Posted by twentynine View Post
    Fantatic advice, and I agree with everything you are saying..

    I definitely am not one to over-do it, if anything it's the opposite.. Sometimes I feel like I'm being TOO natural and just being myself and it just falls into my lap.. So you are absolutely 100% correct.

    Thanks for taking the time to reply!
    Hey bro, Love the enthusiasm! Excited to see what you need help with. I'm a strong advocate of Indirect Game, but completely respect Meteora's opinion on Direct Game being easier overall
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    Default Re: Hey, I'm twentynine.

    Hey thanks cd. I usually lean more towards Indirect myself lately, at least at first. I'm more of a "natural game" type but I like to have some tricks up my sleeve

    Thx again!


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