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    Charm139 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default sarging in a bar with girls that do not speak english

    Ok guys so here is what happened when I went out last night and I want your opinion on the topic.

    I was out at this bar taking shots with a big group of maybe 10 people. I was getting free shots(my best girl friend sleeps with the bartender), having a great time, I was definitely noticed in the bar by other girls. So I notice this one sHB across the bar. Blonde blue eyes, perfect 10. She kept looking at me and I was acting like I did not notice until my best girl friend (Jackie) even pointed it out to me saying that she had been eyeing me for the last ten minutes. Here is the problem. The bar was super crowded and there was no way I was going to make it to the other side of the bar to talk to her. Also I would have left my friends/ other possible targets. So what I attempted was to make eye contact with her and see if she would initiate an attempt to converse with me or anything like that. Of course she did not. So I picked up my shot and cheersed with her from across the bar. Unfortunately, that is all that happened with her.

    I had no idea how to approach her after that.

    Normally I would be able to say an opener and start a conversation. However, for me there is a major problem.

    I am in Spain and I speak pretty good Spanish but not fluent so I knew I would struggle with a good opener or conversation.

    What do you guys think I should do if this scenario happens again?

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    Default Re: sarging in a bar with girls that do not speak english

    Make it clear that you don't speak spanish fluently to her or ask a trusted wing friend to translate few words for you whilst gaming her
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    Default Re: sarging in a bar with girls that do not speak english

    First understand that you'll probably never see her again, so approaching and at least learning something is better than not approaching at all.

    When dealing with foreign girls talk is cheap when you don't know the language . It's all about your Nonverbals and ballsyness. Don't just be direct, be super farking direct while staring deeply into the back of her skull. "I saw you and thought you looked farking gorgeous." Make it clear you only speak as little Spanish and literally Kino as soon as possible. Make up any bullshit to Kino if you have to. Kino is essential in gaming in Spanish countries do to the culture. If there's a dance floor, you'll want to dance with her too.

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    Default Re: sarging in a bar with girls that do not speak english

    Alright thanks guys. Lilstring I completely agree with you. I still fear rejection. I don't know why because you are right I will never see them again. Tonight I will test it out!


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