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Thread: Newbie lookin for advice

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    Default Newbie lookin for advice

    Hi,

    I'm new here! I've been reading some material and watching videos and stuff regarding pick up. There seems to be different theories on how to go about the process. Should I look into the Direct Game stuff? Or stick with the routine orientated model? I really want to learn this but its confusing as a beginner and I need some advice on how to start. What books should I read or what Method should I learn? Thanks.

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    Default Re: Newbie lookin for advice

    Should I look into the Direct Game stuff? Or stick with the routine orientated model? I really want to learn this but its confusing as a beginner and I need some advice on how to start. What books should I read or what Method should I learn? Thanks.
    if you can keep from using routines it will help in the long run. honestly I recommend you spend more time out and less time reading. too much reading will only cause you to overthink and get confused out in the field. I would suggest you take a boot camp instead of reading tons of books. it will get you into the mode of getting out there and making approaches. use whatever method you please, there really isn't a right or wrong way to get a woman, this is an art form not a science

    if you read any more books I highly recommend you read "how to meet and connect with woman"- by wayne elise it helped me more than any other book I read and the best part is that you should be able to find a downloadable pdf version on the internet for free. (just google search it) it taught me the importance of open-mindedness and how to be a lot better at getting from attraction to well into comfort stage. be sure to check it out!

    btw post any questions or concerns on this forum, all to often guys make only a few posts asking for advice and then leave to never come back. (don't be one of those guys) we're here to help you succeed.

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    Default Re: Newbie lookin for advice

    Hey man I'm new here too. Everything meteora said is solid advice (going to look into that book myself now). The real truth is that the way to get better at this is to experience it in the field, instead of reading a lot, read little tidbits in great depth and go out and experience it in field while taking mental notes of what you learn. Who cares if you fark up, we've all done it. Don't let Approach Anxiety get you man, woman want you to approach them and dominate them, go get em tiger.

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    Default Re: Newbie lookin for advice

    Welcome to the forums.

    This is a great site and you will get GREAT results if you put in the effort.

    To learn the game you should aim to add 1 new thing to your game every week, get out in the field and use that skill. The following week you should be using this skill plus a new one. This way after 4 weeks you will have added 4 new things to your game.

    It is a lot better to do it this way than to try to add 4 or more things all at once. It will overwhelm you as this will usually end up confusing most guys They have all these new tools when they get out in the field without knowing how use a single one effectively.

    Start with approaching girls and opening them up. Time yourself, and try to prolong each conversation so it lasts longer the previous one. It DOESN'T matter what you talk to them about because it's just about approaching and getting comfortable doing that.

    This will help you get over your Approach Anxiety. Once you are comfortable opening sets then add 1 new thing to your game. It may seem like baby steps at first but when you look back at in a month or so it will feel like you were leaping and sprinting. You WILL have pretty good results too by then.

    Think of it as building a house. Start with a strong foundation and then build up from there.

    Lots of great resources and the guys here are more than happy to point you in the right direction as Meteora said in his post.


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