Re: In dire need of getting out of my shell / feeling comfortable around gr
All awesome points brought up by joe. Another thing you should really do is learn about who and what you really are. You think you know yourself, but I can assure you that there is far more to know and understand about yourself than you think. For me to really understand the kind of person I was, I had to sit down in front of a chalk board for 12 hours and brainstorm.
This helps for three main reasons. First, it brings out the qualities and traits that you would like to improve upon or change. Second, this shows you what kind of girls are attracted to you based on your qualities and so on. Third, using this road map, you can adjust who you are and what you do to attract the correct crowd.
Good luck on the forums, and don't be afraid to ask questions. The members of the forums are always available for help via private messaging or posting a thread. Happy learning
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X