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    Default Leading a Double Life

    Hey Guys,

    Im a 31yr old fairly good looking guy, been on here sharpening my skills on and off for awhile. Not sure who I am right now or what exactly i want for my life right now.

    In my twenties, myself and a group of other guys were direct to the max with girls and picked up girl after girl, just by association I banged well over 60-70 girls. Never really had any game, just my own apartment when young and a reputation.

    Anyways, fast forward ten years. I have a career and an LTR....and Im bored as f*ck. The stability that I sooo need I now have and still urge for younger ass. All my buddies are either married or getting married, my gf is supportive and GOOD FOR ME...but I still think I'll be happier picking up hoodrats and f*cking them in my shitty little apartment.

    Im at a crossroads in my life...My career and LTR on one hand (what is GOOD for me) ....and my improving my pick-up, f*cking young ass and the free life on the other hand.

    Ive mentioned this in a post before and a cpl guys commented stating it's one or the other. Ive f*cked a cpl girls behind my girlfriends back and yes I know it's wrong...

    I dont wanna give up my career or really even my girlfriend, but same time, I still feel like Im missing out, like Im not ready to give up young ass...Im also bored...plus I also wanted to date a MUCH younger girl, like a 20 yr old. Bonnie & Clyde kinda relationship.

    i work at the bank (with my gf) and I care about her, but I'm uncertain what i want. It's now starting to affect my job and she sees my lack of attention towards her...still hesitant to let a good thing go tho.

    You guys got any more advice?
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    Default Re: Leading a Double Life

    Should you live for whats "good for you" or what really makes you happy, even tho your happiness may be things unstable. im 31 and Id rather sell and pick up chicks.
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    Default Re: Leading a Double Life

    Do what makes you happy bruh. Just understand the consequences of your actions. I don't believe in playing women or anyone for that matter, so I won't jump into a relationship until I'm ready for one.

    You have a good thing going for you, but if you're not happy, you have to do something about it. You have to weigh the pros and cons, and ultimately make a decision.

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    Default Re: Leading a Double Life

    If your a horny dude your not supposed to be in a relationship. Its a mans inner being to be free. But I feel like you already made up your mind. Your just having an issue taking action towards your goal. Its ok to break up with a girl. It will actually make your game 10 times better.
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    Default Re: Leading a Double Life

    I understand where you're coming from. Frankly, I'm facing the same thing right now. The girl I have I know has almost all of the ideal qualities I'm looking for. I also knew that I was ready to settle down and take a break from the constant game of pickup. However, I'm not feeling it with her as I did before. Now, I have a hungering to return back to the ocean to spend my days fishing.

    I know how I felt before the relationship, and I know how I now feel during the relationship. They're two completely different things that I know are going to occur regardless of where I'm at or who I'm with. In the end, it comes down to this:

    Pick your Poison. Would you rather give up the game, give up your career, or give up your girlfriend? You can't have all three, and giving up each one yields its own set of consequences. It's a matter of choosing which consequences we can live with that counts.

    Good luck man, and may the force be with you on this one.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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