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    Default The Morning After

    How do I deal with the girl the morning after a One Night Stand?
    All women are the same, but they just want different versions of the same thing.

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    Default Re: The Morning After

    Basically, you try not to. LOL.

    I would say text her the next night saying that you had fun. If you both agreed it was just going to be one night then still text her or call her because you don't want to get a reputation as a guy who doesn't call or text.

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    Default Re: The Morning After

    Quote Originally Posted by Mystik View Post
    Basically, you try not to. LOL.
    Haha, well yeah.. In most cases this is the route I take lol.

    It really depends on what kind of relationship you want to maintain - or not maintain - with the girl in the future.

    The morning after can be awkward, everyone goes through this to an extent.. There have been times when I've ducked out before she's even woken up, this is usually when I either wake up and can't sleep, or wake up and realize "Oh fark, what am I doing here?!" Haha.. If you have mutual friends and your reputation is at stake, however, I wouldn't advise this route..

    Making an excuse after the two of you wake up about something you need to leave early to do that day will work as well. Or if you decide you'd like to see her again, or might even want a LTR with her.. You can make conversation, offer to make coffee or breakfast, and ask her if she wants to hang out for a while or go out somewhere.

    Sky's the limit man, just play it by ear.. Keep your mind on the outcome that you want and than make the appropriate actions to get there. And be confident!

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    Default Re: The Morning After

    I have two go-to strategies.

    If the girl is hot I will play it off like I have known her forever, and if I want to see her again I tell her "I you hope you aren't like all the other girls I meet" she will ask why, then I will tell her that most of the women I meet flake and I hope she is different because I want to see her again. This usually gets a repeat because of course she wouldn't want to be like all the other girls.

    If the girl is not hot I will get up and leave.

    Bottom line in either situation: Avoid awkwardness at all counts.


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