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Thread: Im new to this after some quick advice.

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    Default Im new to this after some quick advice.

    Hey my names Michael and i'm pretty clad i found this place because my game needs serious work lol so here's a quick run about ive had some pretty good hook up's but I think i just got lucky had two threesomes as well but as i said i think I was in the right place at the right time.

    So basically I have no friends i mean I know people n talk to them but I de freinded a few people because lets just say they tuned into junkies and i went down another path. So when i go out it's lil me all by my self lol no wing let's just say im pretty anti social trying badly to improve this and i am slowy. I'd say ive had around 30 woman and only lost my virginity around 20 or 21 and i'm 24 now.
    I get told im really good looking all the time like I have loads of woman walk up to me and hit on me ask me were my g/f is lol stuff like that i know that's bad I should be sleeping with chick's all day long that's why i'm here because as soon as I open my mouth they turn and walk away.

    So ive got lots to learn but just recenty ive been doing well by my standards but on new years night biggest night of the year as we all know I went down to a club walked cocky like I own this shit had chicks rubbing their tits against me as i walked pass and had lots girls hitting on me at the bar things like that.

    the Last two new years ive had a goodnight 2012 had one of those threesomes lol thats was good but this year i think i had a bit to much to drink and as the night went on lets just say I farked up lost all my confidence and im tying to get back on track.

    So here's were i farked up I used to work with this HB she aways used to flirt with me and even almost followed me into the toilet at work one day i used to tease her alot the only reason we got stopped our boss caught us and told us to get back to work but anyway she went to work somewere else but now she works at the night club i go to alot she's the door girl and always looks at me and says hello only prob is shes married lol bt i think there separated now. I saw her out on new years looking at me a fair bit she tripped over staring at me lol but i never go out of my way to talk to her other then a quick hello as i walk by anyway i saw her and her friends sitting down one was really drunk passed out almost I was almost going to cross the road and avoid them but I though no ill say something lol so as i walked by I said to them You guys should come with me the parties this way she looked at me and said you should shut the fark up i said something like it was just a conversation so is this a shit test or what.

    also I went up to this other HB and opened her with

    Me hey I like your dress
    HB haha thanks
    Me yeah i wore that last night
    HB fark off you wore this last night
    Me settle just playing with you
    HB no you said you wore this dress last night you saidthat so i'm going to farking embarrass you.

    so she yells out and tells everyone what i just said lol dont ask me why i said it it was a cold approuch as she walked by only thing i thought of lol i know stupid so I went from owning the night to that walking home alone hating myself so and advice dont be mean and sorry for the life story and bad grammar im on my phone.

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    Default Re: Im new to this after some quick advice.

    Seems like both of the girls you mentioned are a bit on the bitchy side. I don't know the whole story behind your ex-coworker telling you to STFU, so it could be a shit test, but that's a pretty odd way of gauging someone's reaction by being that blatant about it.

    Onto the second girl. Never explain yourself. EVER. You probably got a bit flustered and nervous when the approach didn't go as planned so you tried to think of a way out of it. That situation wouldn't even warrant a response from me. I'd just walk on and open another set. You could've probably came back with something like, "Girl you're just jealous because I make you look like shit in it". If she's going to be a bitch about it then counter-act appropriately.

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    Default Re: Im new to this after some quick advice.

    Thanks for the reply man. Yeah the co worker is a long story like i said I think she was really into me she's always staring me down.

    But thanks for taking the time to reply this thread has had lots of view's but only one reply lol.

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    Default Re: Im new to this after some quick advice.

    Both girls do seem rather pissed at the world.

    I've had girls who stare me down and give me the cold shoulder when I talk to them, and I've had the exact opposite. Women who are super un-receptive and antagonizing, but want me in the end. You never know until you try. Granted which you did, but you didn't remain in the conversation to figure out anything.

    When hit with such a ruthless response you have to ask yourself if you even want to be talking to this person. If yes, remain un-receptive, smile, an act however you see fit. The key is to not get mad. You should never be outcome dependent, that's why you can handle the situation in whatever way you feel like.

    Personally, it would have depended on my mood at the time, but I'm a pretty big asshole so I would have probably just pissed her off. I would have stared into her soul, and the convo would have played out something like this:

    Me: Hi
    Her: Shut the fuck up!
    Me: *death stare and big smile* "the smallest dogs always bark the loudest, you know why? because they're insecure.
    Her: *pissed off bitch response*
    Me: It's a shame your personality is such shit, you have amazing *compliment* *walk off*

    Or

    Me: Hi
    Her: Shut the fuck up!
    Me: *killer eye contact and big smile* Shit talkers always give amazing head.
    Her: *speechless*
    Me: You ladies have a wonderful night *walk off*

    You get the point. In that being there is no point. Handle it however you want. A lot of people probably won't agree with the way I would handle it, but like I said I can be a pretty big asshole. My way of dealing with other assholes is to shit talk them back, but with a smile on my face. It ALWAYS manages to piss them off haha, and it's completely congruent with my personality.

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    Default Re: Im new to this after some quick advice.

    Haha I agree with listing, although I know others on here who would disagree. Sometimes in night game some women can be real b!tches. I don't know why this is. I think allot of times it is a shit test. I have done things similar to listing and talked shit back with a big smile on my face. Sometimes they get pissed and other times they talk shit back and I have actually picked the girls up/ k-closed.

    Dude I want to tell you something. You have f-closed 30 women in 4 years??!! You have game! Most guys on here looking for advice have only f-closed a couple women. You are obviously doing allot of things right! I lost my virginity at 18 and I have f-closed around 4-5 women a year. I don't hook up with as many women now as I used to because I screen allot of women now instead of just taking them home the first time I meet them and f-close. I have talked to all my guy friends, and besides one, I have slept with way more women then they have. In four years you have slept with more women then most guys will sleep with in their entire life! Give yourself some credit and stay confident.

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    Default Re: Im new to this after some quick advice.

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    Sometimes they get pissed and other times they talk shit back and I have actually picked the girls up/ k-closed.

    Yess!!!!!!!!

    Dude I want to tell you something. You have f-closed 30 women in 4 years??!! You have game!
    Freaking excellent point. You are doing something right if you consider yourself to have no game and pulling that many women considering the average male sleeps with 7 women throughout the course of his LIFE.

    I freaking love direct is beast and wish we could wing each other haha.

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    Default Re: Im new to this after some quick advice.

    I'm from Minneapolis. It's not that far away.

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    Default Re: Im new to this after some quick advice.

    Thanks for the reply guys year I guess i have a good number. But like i said I think it' because I might be really good looking I say might be becuase i get told that but I feel like a dick if i admit that lol.

    And most of the woman have been like 2 and 3 only had a few 7 or 8 HB's just recently. If i had a wing more often i would pull tons. Every time i used to go out with some friend's i would get woman coming over to me and asking me my name and wanting me to meet there friend stuff like that but like I said i'm a bit of a loner so it's a bit hard to be confident when your clubbing alone and as you all know from the moment you walk in that club you need to own it.

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    Default Re: Im new to this after some quick advice.

    Check your responses.with your dynamic you sort of blow them out.when you open them transition into building attraction more.


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