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    Default She only gives one word text replies.

    My girl I've been seeing and texting some time now only replies with one word replies lately.
    She's in a funk financially and emotionally I know. How can I get the response I am seeking? You know, flirtatious, silly, and fun convo's over text?

    Stumped.

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    Default Re: She only gives one word text replies.

    Have you been sending her flirtatious and funny texts? If so, then I think your best bet is to back off for a couple of days and wait for her to text you. If she's not being responsive, then don't be responsive with her.
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    Default Re: She only gives one word text replies.

    1) Have you slept with her?
    2) Have you tried to set up a time to see her?
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    Default Re: She only gives one word text replies.

    Sometimes you have to give girls time to deal with emotional things.
    Don't try to force funny / flirty when they're going through a rough time.

    Instead, give her some extra space & be supportive. Let her know you understand things are tough & that you're willing to listen if she needs to talk or vent.

    Show her you're interested in her on a deeper level & that you care.

    The fun/flirty vibe will return when she's had time to get through whatever is putting her in this funk.

    Don't stress yourself & worry about it. It's a normal occurrence.
    This is when most guys screw up & get mad & upset, by making it all about them.

    When in THIS case, it's actually all about HER... or at least she needs to feel like it is.

    Even if it drives you crazy & you need to yell & throw a fit, make sure you do it IN PRIVATE so that she doesn't see it. She needs you to be strong, supportive & understanding.

    Trust me, I've been through this same thing more times than I can count.


    It'll all be good.


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    Default Re: She only gives one word text replies.

    The back story: Yes, I have been sleeping with her for a while, but not so much lately. I can't help but feel put out, but I understand now she needs to get her life in order before she can devote herself to a relationship. Thanks for the sage advice everyone.

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    Default Re: She only gives one word text replies.

    I realize that I will take my own happiness in my hands and focus on my passions.

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    Default Re: She only gives one word text replies.

    If you've been sleeping with her, that's great. Why you have feelings with her is more appropriate. The only real connections are built in person, and it's healthier for you not to worry too much about her emotional state to keep you happy. The only individual you have control over is you. If you push too hard to make her happy etc now, it will be harder to see her. Emotions come and go. Sooner or later, she'll be excited to see you again.
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    Default Re: She only gives one word text replies.

    I agree CDHarders, I am only going to concern myself with what I like to do. I'm seriously thinking about kicking her to the curb and let her be someone else's trouble. This has been going on for several months now. I guess I'm just too stubborn to give up, got a loyalty streak in me somewhere. I'll give it time. Another month or so. If things don't change, I'm moving on.


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