New to the PUA scene

hi im just comming out of a long term relationship. my game was not bad per se but it was not stellar either. i didnt knew how to approach womans and i would be able to meet new people by being forced to meet those people either in school or when i was introducted but friends. i got to have some fun but now after being into the PUA thing i can see where i was failling.

I dont think i use to have aa when clubbing but i mostly used to approach a lot of girls when i was semi to heavily drunk so i would not get bummed by the rejections.

right now im comfortable but still i know i have some AA that i have to leave behind. I know this will come with practice.

One thing where it looks like im very different is that i actually like the day game more than clubbing. it seems like i can play in a more relaxed environment. i have to deal with customer service everyday in my work and i think over the years this has helped me get rid of some of my AA.

Last couple of days ive been trying to like bite the bullet and pick up in my local walgreens on the day. it seems like im not lucky and i can never find the good set to go into. im thinking about opening with the whole "need woman perspective" line.

also im going to college where ive seen plenty of flirting towards me just didnt knew how to react about it. also had girls approach me and yet i had the perfect line when the conversation was over. it kinda sucks and i really want to be able to shoot those clever lines immediately.

do you guys find it hard to close on day game?

The big guns here say that day game is harder because you're generally approaching a woman who is working, studying, doing her thing and might not be welcome. I'm still working myself on just approaching and commenting on strangers' whatevers and it's really not that easy. The easiest thing is to comment on how cute a woman's baby is, but then again, it's not like I can hit on the mother after. Hahaha.

Opening Kino with women who are doing something is quite difficult. Their focus is on their task. If you insist to initiate a simple convo with them, there might be a possibility that they will get irritated and you end up being farked up.

yeah, I meet a lot of chicks who are already doing something as that they are already working or in the workplace etc... It is good as they are tied to the location although I have often left it too long and they can just blow me off and do the working thing, too busy, in other words Piss Off you missed your chance and made me look like an idiot

Its a tough one to retrieve. If you can move into set smoothly and bait the babe then those sorts of places are great grounds for fishing one out if you don't haunt it

I would think that if youre new to the idea of PUA, and especially daygame. I'd say dont game the staff unless you make sure its not busy. I work in a resturant and also as a PT and its sometimes annoying when youre in a hurry and someone keeps wanting to talk to you, so pick your battles. If there are long queues, come back another day. If its quiet, and you see the person is bored then most likely they will welcome a chat.

Its different with moving targets though (Stopping someone in the street), they are usually going from A to B, so just stopping them on the street means you need to have balls and something good to ask them, opinion openers are the easiest to get a response on. But dont use the same as you would in a club, and make sure the openers need more than a simple yes/no so atleast the person needs to think a bit about it.

When it comes to closing on daygame.. I find it a hell of a lot harder than in clubs, girls are more receptive to flirting there imo. I flirt with customers that I find cute, but it isnt gaming, just easygoing flirting that im not leading anywhere so I cant really say ive been going hard at it.
Some people like daygaming, others the nightgame, but also.. if you can daygame then your nightgame is golden.

A good Opener you can use in daygame at malls etc, or even with girls at college I recently saw in the Ultimate Natural Game DVDs. Its a opinion opener where you stop a girl and tell her that your friend is somewhere (preferably far away) and that you have been given 500$ to buy something for him to give to his gf's birthday and you need some advice. Make sure to not make it a yes/no answer, make her think a bit about the answer. I tried it yesterday, worked like a charm even though it was just a friendly chat (I find it hard to escalate still, and especially daygame).

Hope my random rambling didnt make your eyes bleed, and good luck !

Dandy my man, thanks for sharing that tip. Am gonna use it next time I hit the mall. I've used the "which perfume is better" when I was trying to hit on this girl that works on fragrances once or twice myself.

Also, if you feel the conversation is going somewhat well and youre getting some IOIs, perhaps ask her basically "You know what, lets just go look at it together, I dont wanna buy the completely wrong thing, hes a good friend which is why he asked me to do this." Or something in that direction, will get you more time with her and hopefully it will be an Instant Date.

The perfume opinion isnt that bad, use the same gift-opener, but let her try the fragrance youre "thinking about buying", this way you can get some Kino in when you lift her arm to smell the perfume.. Now that I think about it, im gonna try that out =D

what i meant was customers like me in places not the employees of the place. yeah ive read some guys here that are kinda hesitant of gaming on the day. i will for sure work it because it seems like a more relaxed environment to work at. ill let you know what happens.

It depends on you bro whether you're into a day game or a night game. As for me, I find a higher success rate in a day game than night game. Well.. I'm not a night person who always hang out on clubs. But if you hone your skills well, you can effective in both games. That's what I'm working on right now.

man i was so mad today. had a nice 7-8 girl in the plate ready for a meal and it slipped off my fingers. ill open up here... i work at a bank, there has been many girls ive met because of it, its pretty cool because they actually approach me and not the other way and i will always throw the hook and many will bite. the problem is i dont want to start # closing because it could get me in trouble.

Today i had a chance, there is this girl that ive seen the last couple of days. all i had to do was ask her about her day in a sincere way and she opened up quickly. she started flirting, throwing IOIs and giving lots of sings to the point that when she was done she was pressurred by the line to go and she clearly wanted to continue what we had. that was yesterday. Today she was back in the bank, again and so since i saw her i started flirting and givings looks, she responded with mouthing jokes and such and the line was pretty bad and she told me she had to work and was late and in a minute she was gone. sucked since it was going to give me the chance to #close her then talk to her to see how bad im right now, to try my new techniques, i think i can laid her pretty easily which is great too(key word here being i think lol). she was going to be like my experimental hamster.

meh i may see her on tuesday again when i go to work. ohh man there also a nurse thats crazy with me and i like her too so she could be added to this group of girls.

yes i know this is a sad excuse of a pick up but i havent gone clubbing in a while and it seems i will not go clubbing in the next couple days. i dont have the courage to go alone. man if i did and came home with something that would rock. humm i have to rediscover the balls i had 5 years ago when i was not married.