Hey what's up guys I am a newbie to gaming but I have a desire to be great. I have finished reading The Game and also looked at some forums and I have started slowly changing my ways of being the ultimate AFC into being the ultimate MPUA(small steps).
Anyways so recently, I had a HB(possibly a 9) on instagram who I was friends with not the closest friendship but I was familiar with her. I decided to try my approach and newfound confidence in myself on her. This chick is a total hottie and receives a lot of comments from mutual friends telling her how beautiful she is, so on and so forth, a lot of chode talk. So recently she put up a picture of a random quote on her instagram in which i decided that I would disqualify/neg her on. I wrote under the comments, "finally a post that's meaningful". Maybe an hour or so later poof I was blocked, just like that. I am sitting here wondering why. Any help/advice on why this happen would be great. I am the usual nice guy that always gets walked on. Maybe the neg was too much?
My next situation happened the other day I was on a date with normal looking chick maybe a 6, but her attitude and how she owned me pushed her up to a 7. We go in the date and its going fairly well running my routines, we are talking I am gaming her pretty good at this point. I am hooking her in with conversation and she seems interested. I am asking her disqualifying questions like "why should a guy like me want to talk to you" Im qualifying her by telling her yes you may possibly fit the bill. I think I am establishing good rapport with her and I try escalating by giving her a high five and she says no she does not want to be touched at the moment. I take a sip of my drink lean back and we talk some more about blah blah then I say we have great energy and try to slightly touch her but she quickly moves her hand away. After my second attempt of kino has been destroyed I give up and go back back into nice guy chode mode and end up paying for the drinks etc. The night is over and the chick is boring me now because I checked out trying to figure out where did I go wrong, I begin to yawn in which she insists that we can leave. I comply, pay for the bill then we go our separate ways. The next day she texts me saying "Hey I had a really good time but I dont see this going past a friendship stage" in which I reply " we had fun and good energy, I dont want to force you into anything that you dont want to do" in which I get no response back. Where did I go wrong?
I am eager for advice/feedback/criticism.
Thanks to all
The great Koufax