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    Default Mixed Body Language

    Hi everyone,

    My first thread. I am very new at this stuff, so please forgive any stupidities.

    My question is: When I approach a girl, I typically get a very mixed body language response from them. Typically lots of ioi's. Playing with hair, etc. Sometimes girls almost fighting for my attention. However when I turn towards them, their body language seems to change. They typically turn their side towards me cross their legs and/or arms and lean away. Almost as if they are frightened. They still keep chatting, and if I walk away, they will typically try to pull me back, so they seem interested enough. But the body language stays locked up.

    I am 6ft 3in tall blond, well built and fit. I frequently get compliments from girls about my looks. I make (very) good money. I am very confident, and I have little or no Approach Anxiety. So things should be easy for me, but somehow I always get stuck at the same point.

    I only do daygame.

    Any input is appreciated

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    Default Re: Mixed Body Language

    Don't JUST do "day game"... game ALL the time, everywhere.


    And don't turn towards them right away if it's constantly causing them to pull away.

    Used a mix of positive & negative body language... but to start out with, minimize the amount of positive you're giving them. (Meaning, don't face them straight on too soon.)

    Keep them to your side instead. You may be giving off too much eagerness right away, or at least that vibe.


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    Default Re: Mixed Body Language

    Thanks T-Mal,
    Maybe you are right, I am very direct in my approach (to anything and everything really). I will try to use a less direct body language and see where it gets me.


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