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    5antoro is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default 18-Year-Old with 2 Year Dry Spell

    Hey guys. Besides two very short makeout sessions, I haven't had any action except for my own hand in the past two years because of the end of a two year LTR. I'm 18 years old. Every school year since then I felt like I've wasted because, in my mind, I feel like this is the age where sex is the norm and it's actually a very emotional problem for me because it's the number one problem in my life and I want to fix it.

    I just finished my freshman year of college with zero action, and honestly it doesn't surprise me as I don't have high self-esteem and I have pretty low self-confidence. It's gotten to the point where when I see a hot girl on campus, instead of the normal "Oh my God" guys do, my heart sinks and my mood is ruined and I get pretty depressed because I know I'll never be able to get with a girl like that. It kinda sucks.

    So as you can see, I'm not going to easily fit in around here by offering advice or anything like that. I'm going to spend time on here reading a bunch of stuff and feel life-changing motivation in the moment but do nothing in person after overthinking like I always have after reading online dating tips for the past two years. Good to be here, looking forward to meeting all of you.
    Keep cool, stay young.

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    Default Re: 18-Year-Old with 2 Year Dry Spell

    I can tell you right now that sex is NOT the norm. In fact, physical relationships usually end up failing in the end. You should set your sights on a girl that you really sync with. Then again, it all comes down to you on how you end up using pickup. For me, it's all about having a better social life and maybe even finding a girl that I really click with.

    By the sounds of it, you already know what your problems are and you're taking action. You don't have confidence, and you are unfamiliar with the social norms due to just coming out of an LTR. Just continue to read and practice, take those first footsteps towards being better, and you will do just fine.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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