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    Sup bros, I'm a 6'5 athletically built dude who has so little experience with girls it's depressing. Crazy thing is I can get them but can't close the deal. I have no game

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    nice to meet you. you're 6'5 and athletic? sounds like you'd get some girls regardless of your game haha. been doing much cold approach yet?

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    Default Re: Social cultz

    How are your social skills? Do you have friends that are female? Ones you havent beeen friend zoned by or friend zoning? I ask this because it helps me understand your level of comfort and understanding of women.

    If you dont have female friends--start there. Look at your family for starters--any female cousins would be a decent start. Be social with females--dont make it a goal to make everything about datin or sex--and yes i think talking to family about this can be awkward but i think its healthy to even bring these subjects to them. But i understand why most people dont.

    Anyways if youre tryingo aquire new female friends make sure youre not trying to F-close them. Just build up comfort. Pretend they're your guy friends and be blunt with them by tellin them you will never judge them no matter what they say or do. Being nom-judgemental will allow you to see women for what they really are because theyre just as insecure as men.

    Having women in your life is important --especially if you aren't trying to have sex with them. It gives you a foundation of what you need to work on. If you can have a friend that is a girl--all it takes now for meeting new women you're trying to date or have sex with is escalation and breaking rapport / flirting while building that comfort with them. The big challenge is trying to balance it out because you dont want to be percieved as a $lut or Friend... You want to be their lover / boy friend. So start with comfort if you dont have female friends or many. Then take new oppurtunities with newer women in your life to break tr nice guy mold and be assertive with them showing strong signs that you are attracted to them... Smile, heavy eye contact and Kino...
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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