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    Default Dhv stories, I have a couple of questions??

    Ok I am in processing of learning how to incorporate dhv stories into my routine and I have a couple of questions I wondered if anyone could help me clear up....

    1) what are the main attraction switches that you need to trigger with DHV stories??

    I'm aware of - Pre selection / leader of men / protector of loved ones

    2) How do you effectively transition into a DHV story?

    this is the process that I am aware of:

    A1
    -Open the set
    -offer false time constraint
    -continue with opener
    -false Takeaway
    -ask the set how they know each / what's the occasion tonight etc


    A2
    -perceptive and teasing comments at the set
    -disqualify as potential suitor
    -neg the target
    -DHV routine - (best friends test etc)

    whats the best way to then actively transition from general chit chat about there night into a a DHV story about the time you saved a kid from drowning in the sea or some shit?

    also do you deliver the DHV story to the whole group or just to the target when you have isolated her?

    3) can you tell me whether the below is a good DHV story and whether I am understanding the process correctly:


    CHECK THIS OUT, I WAS IN (WHEREVER) LAST WEEKEND WITH SOME FRIENDS AND WE WERE CHATTING TO A GROUP OF GIRLS ABOUT WHERE THE BEST PLACES TO GO WERE AND THEY OFFERED TO SHOW US AROUND AND TAKE US TO SOME COOL BARS.

    ANYWAY WE ALL ENDED UP DOING JAGERS AND SHOTS, YOU NAME IT, WE DRANK IT! IT WAS CRAZY THESE GIRLS COULD DRINK, ANYWAY ONE OF THE GUYS GOT REALLY DRUNK AND STARTED BEING SICK IN THE BAR - HE WAS IN A BAAAAD WAY IT WAS NASTY AND THE BAR STAFF WERE NOT LOOKING TOO HAPPY

    THESE GIRLS WANTED TO TAKE US TO THIS CLUB BUT I WAS LIKE LOOK I WILL TAKE THIS GUY HOME HE'S WAY TO DRUNK AND I WILL MEET YOU LATER.

    SO I JUMPED IN A TAXI AND TOOK HIM BACK TO THE HOTEL GOT HIM TO BED THEN CAME BACK TO THE CLUB AND MET UP WITH THE REST OF THE GROUP (PROTECTOR OF LOVED ONES)

    ANY WAY LATER ON ONE OF THE GIRLS KEPT INVITING ME TO THE BAR, THERE WAS BIT OF FLIRTY BANTER AND WE ENDED UP KISSING (PRE SELECTION), I THEN NOTICED THAT ON HER LEFT HAND SHE WORE A WEDDING RING, I WAS LIKE....."WHOOAA ARE YOU MARRIED?"

    SHE WAS LIKE "YEAH" SUPER CASUALLY.....WHICH I THOUGHT WAS REALLY WEIRD, SO I WAS LIKE "LOOK, YOU REALLY SHOULDN'T BE KISSING ME OR ANYONE ELSE BUT YOUR HUSBAND, IT'S REALLY WEIRD" (WILLINGNESS TO WALK AWAY)

    ANYWAY I WENT BACK AND CARRIED ON HAVING AN AWESOME NIGHT WITH MY FRIENDS WHEN I SAW THE MARRIED GIRL UP AGAINST A WALL KISSING ANOTHER GUY, LITERALLY 15 MINS AFTER I HAD BEEN AT THE BAR WITH HER, THEN THIS GUY COMES OUT OF NOWHERE GRABS THE GUY KISSING THE MARRIED GIRL BY THE THROAT AND BEGINS PUMMELING THIS DUDES HEAD, A HUGE FIGHT BREAKS OUT AND IT GOES CRAZY UNTIL SECURITY THROWS THEM ALL OUTSIDE,

    I WAS 15 MINS FROM BEING IN THE MIDDLE OF THAT! AND AFTERWARDS I LEARNT, DON'T EVER.....EVER TRUST A GIRL THAT CAN DRINK MORE THAN YOU!!

    feedback much appreciated!! i wanna get this stuff nailed down if poss!!

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    Default Re: Dhv stories, I have a couple of questions??

    This looks like Mystery Method stuff. Good place to start but it's a little outdated. DHVing is not as difficult as it is often made to be. On top of that, if you change your lifestyle to one of higher value, you'll never have to tell a dhv story again, you'll literally just have to tell a story.

    This shouldn't be a starting point for you. If this is where your concern is, your far from being on top of your game. A DHV could be something as simple as...

    Her: Hey, how was your day?

    You: Pretty friggin wonderful. Went to the dog park with my best bud met up with some friends for ice cream, and of course finished it off with a nap by the pool what did you get into lady bug?

    It's really just showing that you got out and did something. It's the same thing at a bar, and in that case your going to want something short and sweet early on. Anything too long and your going to lose them. If your at a point where you can tell a story that long, than there is really no need. If already proven yourself, you've been hooked, and it's time for escalation. You don't need some insane story to prove that your higher value.
    You don't need her

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    Default Re: Dhv stories, I have a couple of questions??

    I agree with BBallking. Keep dhv short and to the point. Stories about a drunk guy being sick and snogging a married woman is risky. You can just say 'we had the most awesome night last week, so much fun. Although some married woman was flirting with me, that was kinda weird'. It encourages her to engage and ask questions if she is interested. Her: 'Married woman? What happened?', You: 'Oh I didn't get involved, she was really cute but not really my type anyway', Her: 'Oh. Whats your type?', You: 'Preferably unmarried haha!! (poke her playfully - subtle neg). Of course I like smart, beautiful, funny, self assured girls' (confidently demonstrate you have experience with and expectations of smart beautiful girls).

    Simply by having a positive attitude and being confident you are demonstrating higher value than most people out there.

    DHV to a whole group first is good. If the whole group is charmed by you, the target will be too, especially because you are genuinely proving your leadership/charisma skills. Rather than telling a story, you ARE a story right there in front of them.

    You can also just open up about yourself randomly. 'Sounds like my team at work. They are a good crew but sometimes I feel like a lion tamer (act out cracking a whip or funny clown juggling routine humming circus music for added entertainment)' or 'I should write a song about that!' (her: 'oh, you play in a band???!!!').

    Be an actor and use your body language to full effect.

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    Default Re: Dhv stories, I have a couple of questions??

    Thanks for the reply guys - maybe I am analysing this stuff too much - I've been reading the Mystery Method and each step is broken down into tiny pieces it's almost like learning biology!!

    I've been watching a few videos on you tube and what not - I think I generally have a positive and confident attitude naturally I pretty much have a good sense of humour and I've always teased and flirted with girls rather than suck up to them in the past even before I knew about the pua community - but it's never gotten me to the point where I can walk into a club and get any girl I want, which Ideally is kinda where I would like to be! whether that's realistic I'm not sure.

    Just a quick question - if The Mystery Method is outdated then what are the methods that people are using today? and how do I learn about these methods? does anyone have a more updated model they could share?


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