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    Default Unique situation?

    I say I'm unique and heres' why: As a teenager I had severe cystic acne, and the only way I have ever successfully managed it with diet. The problem is that I eat an EXTREMELY rigid diet, ie: I can't eat out or drink alcohol. Ever. I wouldn't think this would be that big of a deal, but pretty quickly my 'friends' stopped talking to me completely. So I'm left with no one to go out with. On top of that I recently developed noise-induced vertigo, so no loud bars, clubs, or parties for me anymore.

    So I guess my biggest issue is where to go to find women, and more importantly what to do for dates.

    I've been trying online dating. While I get messages from women consistently, I really have no clue where to go from there. Kind of aggravating since I have no problems doing so in person. I have been checking out some of the stuff on this site though.

    Cliffs;

    Had acne, strict diet to deal with it, lost tons of friends, trying to manage without.

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    Default Re: Unique situation?

    Whats your diet?

    If food is an issue then dont make it about food. Treat food / meals as an after thought for your dates. Never make your date all about food. You dont want to be scarfing down a meal when you're tryin to get intimate with someone. Realistically you should do something neutral like a fair, mall, bookstore or maybe thrift shopping. Think of places that arent food related that might be close to where you can go eat afterwards to your choosing. Be open to changes--id suggest eating a somewhat decent size meal before hand so you dont get hungry but could do with some kind of refreshment like say a smoothy, shake or a juice. Keep it simple. If it comes up--tell her and be forward about it. Most people will understand after a few minutes of talking to you and try to accomidate you and make a compromise.

    Did you really lose friends over this? Or are you just not going out to hang out? Id suggest having eated before or prepare snacks when hangin out with friends so you can still be social and eat.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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