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    cpu77 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I never had game just luck!

    I am a 40 year guy who has been divorced for a year. I was married for 19yrs. Since my divorce I dated a old high school girlfriend. Which I screwed up, because even though I told her it was to soon to date I did anyway! I just hadn't grieve long enough for my divorce. I am a successful guy by all accounts, better than average looking, I work out 3-4x a week and own businesses. I just lack confidence. Which is sad if you knew the things I have accomplished. The two serious relationships I have had really were the first girl you date situation. In reality though they were slightly above average in looks and not crazy! I am really just trying to have some fun and eventually meet someone I wanna spend the rest of my life with.

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    Default Re: I never had game just luck!

    Welcome man! Glad to see you here. I promise you. If you stick around here and read some of the posts, you should have your confidence level through the roof in no time! And confidence is a HUGE part of "the game". Don't worry, man, I've been through a divorce myself so I know what you're feeling. We'll help you get out of that. ;-)

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    cpu77 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I never had game just luck!

    Maverick1027

    I really appreciate the reply and words of encouragement. After almost 20 years the whole idea of dating seems foreign. I am going to read up and see what might help. Thanks again!

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    Default Re: I never had game just luck!

    The most importantthig is not confidence. It's faith in yourself. When you start to put faith into yourself you are trusting yourself to make the best decisions to a great time. If you can live, laugh eventually you can love. Don't focus on goals. Focus on escalating your life to something powerful and meaningful. The more charge you take in your life with pride the more others cannot deny your presence because you're leading by example. In social situations this will naturally allow you to be a great social butterfly and be heard clearly and differently than others because you're doing things for yourself. You aren't holding back because you wanted to or needed to, you're out there leading and creating a life you want with a strong positive attitude. People are attracted to fun and positive things so they can eminate and thrive off that too. So change your perception and stop focusing on goals and make it more about enjoying your moment and turning things around for yourself. You'll be happier in perspective and will naturally have more options come your way.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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