Re: I never had game just luck!
The most importantthig is not confidence. It's faith in yourself. When you start to put faith into yourself you are trusting yourself to make the best decisions to a great time. If you can live, laugh eventually you can love. Don't focus on goals. Focus on escalating your life to something powerful and meaningful. The more charge you take in your life with pride the more others cannot deny your presence because you're leading by example. In social situations this will naturally allow you to be a great social butterfly and be heard clearly and differently than others because you're doing things for yourself. You aren't holding back because you wanted to or needed to, you're out there leading and creating a life you want with a strong positive attitude. People are attracted to fun and positive things so they can eminate and thrive off that too. So change your perception and stop focusing on goals and make it more about enjoying your moment and turning things around for yourself. You'll be happier in perspective and will naturally have more options come your way.
Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.