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Thread: Trying to get into the next step of the Game

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    Default Trying to get into the next step of the Game

    Hey everyone

    I'm not sure if I actually count as a new member, as I've been part of this forum on another account for about two years now. Let me make a small bio.

    I discovered the game about three years ago on a random Mystery pdf. During the first year I just read from time to time, trying some stuff a bit, going on a couple dates from okcupid, that kind of sh!t. I somehow managed to find a great, and the Game padawan I was started switching back to being a very beta guy.

    And then, she cheated on me while I was back in my home country for my father's funeral. And I thought: well, fark that sh!t.

    I started reading a lot, all the books I could find, observe other people pick-up girls, watch movies, and registered here to read other people's advice. However, I see the Game as a martial art: you can read about it all you want, talk about it, watch other people practice, but at some point you won't learn unless you go out there and fight. So I used meetup, okcupid, college parties, to go out as much as I could, meet as many people as I could, and go to 4-6 dates per week. I also happened to find a bro from my social group who was into the Game too. We started wingmanning for each other. We also had game nights where we would talk about our findings of the week, exchange techniques, and learn faster.

    And man, I learned, I learned so much.

    I got laid as much during the following six months than during all my life before. People I didn't know had heard about me. When people had questions about relationships, everyone would point at me. Guys would tell other guys "Don't let your girl talk with this guy! If you start letting him speak, it's over man, it's over!" People called me a genius, a master, and it was beautiful.

    Don't get me wrong, I was way better than the other guys but I was veeeery far from being a MPUA. I still had aa, I never actually managed to pick up a girl in a club or to do a cold approach. But yeah, if you let me speak 5 minutes to a girl, I was sure to get her. And that was the level I wanted, so that was good enough for me.

    And then, the inevitable happened: I met the girl. The girl you learned the game for, the girl you had been waiting to find. Gorgeous, smart, doing great professionally, just horny enough, liking me just a bit more than I liked her, the kind of girl I can chat with for a whole day and not see time passing.

    She was supposed to be a 1-3 months relationship, no more, but then all the other girls I met sucked compared to her. And I knew that if I left, the girl I would end up searching for would be her. So I just stayed one month. And another. And another.

    It's been a year now. I'm happy with her, seriously happy. I plan on staying with her for a couple years, probably more. I'm 30 now, so marriage and kids are a definite possibility in the future.

    But something is missing.

    I miss the game. I can't tell how much I miss it. It's destroying me. Every time I chat up a girl, every time I play with a girl's hair five minutes after having met her and she give me those eyes, it's like a first cigarette after having stopped for several months. And every time I have to stop escalating, or not go on a date, or not invite a girl to my place, it tears my heart. I cheated once, and I felt incredibly sh!tty and awesome at the same time. Our relationship was actually better after I had done it than before. I'm still exploring that way. I don't know if I will do it again or not, we'll see.

    I have everything I was looking for, but I feel something is missing.

    So here I am. I reached the Game level I wanted. I found the girl I wanted. Now what? That's what I'm here to find, while hopefully learn and teach some new things in the progress.

    Sorry for the long read, and may the Game be with you.
    'The Game is what gives a PUA his power. It's an energy field created by all living things. It surrounds us and penetrates us. It binds the world together.'

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    Default Re: Trying to get into the next step of the Game

    I feel that too. Every time a relationship ends, I'm rusty. But when the engine starts working it's damn good. The more girls you know, the more you'll know. It's great to talk to women. Way better than men, because they're funnier.

    Anyhow, I'm in a relationship for about 1 year and I'm tired. Not that I don't like my gf, but I just miss talking with other girls, escalating, flirting, etc, and I can't do all of that, because it seems wrong to me. But damn, I miss the times. I think that, even though I like my gf, I'm kinda wasting my 23 years. But I also think that this happens to every male. It's in our nature, just like it is in women's nature to love and care about the same guy all over her life.

    It seems that this feeling will grow and grow until the point where you have to decide wether you want to stay in a relationship, or end it.

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    Default Re: Trying to get into the next step of the Game

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    It seems that this feeling will grow and grow until the point where you have to decide wether you want to stay in a relationship, or end it.
    Yeah, that's what I'm worried about. I really want to stay with that one, as I know that even if I go out I will end up looking for her anyway.

    I guess right now I'm looking for a third option, a way to stay with the girl I really want but still have fun as a pua.

    It's sad/weird that most stuff about the game just talks about how to get a great relationship but not what to do after. Trying and discovering stuff by myself is nice, but man, I could really use advice or examples from people with more experience.
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    Default Re: Trying to get into the next step of the Game

    Well I think that if you want to have fun as a PUA, you'll end up getting attracted to any other girl at some point. It's just in our nature, there's no way around it, especially when we're young.

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    Default Re: Trying to get into the next step of the Game

    My advice for that would be to break up with the girl you're with if you still misstalking to other women.. everyone feels that way in a relationship because there is a feeling that you're trapped and to be honest relationships get boring with we as humans want what we can't have. You see a girl and talk to her, the more she seems not interested in you the more you'll feel attracted to her because of the challenge. Now when you finally get the prize you'll become bored because the challenge of chasing someone isn't there anymore.. i think that's what you guys are feeling now.
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