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    Default Re: So theres this girl, how to number close

    That sounds good. I dont have too much of a problem with that, I think i could do that. It's just from experience im not so crazy of saying. "Hey i thought you were really pretty, and was wondering if you'd be down to go for a drink sometime?." Just because i feel like first im showing too much interest at once. Second, im already asking for her number, and putting her on the spot, in front of the teacher to give me her number. Isn't that like too much pressure on her or whatever? Seeing as im trying to make her comfortable with me first off? The date wouldn't be the issue. The only problem as ive said is actually getting her number. I feel like what i could do is say something like." Hey, i thought you had a really cute smile, and was wondering if you'd like to go for a coffee sometime? " But again i feel like its so straightforwards, and its like showing to her as for now all i care about is how she looks. See what i mean? Therefore, dont wanna blow that chance just like that.

    PS Thanks so much for replying. Means a lot.

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    Default Re: So theres this girl, how to number close

    High risk high reward. You really don't have much for other options, and you ARE only going off her looks since you haven't talked to her. The thing is, when you tell her you want to get coffee with her you're telling her "I want to get to know you better".

    Yes you are putting her on the spot, in front of the teacher. It would be allot of pressure BUT it also shows extreme confidence on your part since 99% of guys would never do this. If you don't have a problem with it then you're set! You would be comfortable, genuine, and confident.

    It is straightforward. That's the point. In certain situations you have no other choice. The success rate for this type of approach is low. However, when you are this direct and it works, you have no resistance once you get the number. Flakes are almost non-existent and everything moves much faster. I've also noticed that your chances of being direct working increase exponentially the ballsier the situation. Here's a diagram to help explain the effectiveness of being direct in certain situations.

    At the bar<during the day<in front of your teacher<in front of their parents

    Get my drift? If you like her smile tell her "I think you have an amazing smile. I want to have coffee with you sometime" while giving her intense eye contact. Don't say "I was wondering" just tell her "I want". That way you're not demanding but your not asking either.

    If she doesn't give you her number it doesn't mean that you blew it. Don't stop trying until she actually says "I'm not interested". So if she doesn't give you her number then next time you see her give her a big smile, strong eye contact, and talk to her again. Even if it's just small talk and you hold up her lesson for a minute.

    If you do this and you don't get the number you will still make her day. She will tell all her friends "OMG you won't believe what this guy did at my lesson! In front of the teacher!". All of her friends will be shocked and very jealous as well.

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    Default Re: So theres this girl, how to number close

    Ok that's awesome man. That's perfect. Im gonna do it next time i see her. Thanks so much.

    Since im here i was wondering if i could ask you another question, or whomever else may be reading this. As today i was walking in town and saw a few time cute girls, as usual they are always in 2s right. Usually when i approach them, it either gets awkward, or they close me off. I dont really care. I just need to get a better game. I do have the balls for it. Its just i know my game needs to be better when approaching 2 girls. One girl never has been an issue. But often the cute ones are with others. So how would i go about it if i was to approach 2 girls in the middle of the day in town.
    One scenario could be literly her on the street where all the shops are. Another, if i was in the same store.

    Thanks.

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    Default Re: So theres this girl, how to number close

    To be completely honest with you I don't have the time for that right now and I'm not the best person to ask about cold approaching. In fact that's one of the worst parts of my game. I've done it before, and I've gotten numbers/dates/lays doing it, but it's not the main way I meet women.

    I'm sure you could search the forum and find stuff about that. You should probably start a new thread asking that question as well. Let me know how it goes with the girl that takes lessons with you. Cheers!

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    Default Re: So theres this girl, how to number close

    Ill defo let you know how it goes! Again thank you so much dude! Cheers

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    Default Re: So theres this girl, how to number close

    Be charming. You donít need to charm her just yet. But be charming in your behavior and the way you speak to everyone else. Know your manners, speak with grace and have a warm personality. This is not something you can build in a day, but once you perfect this, youíll be able to draw any girl to you without even trying. Cheers!!!


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