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    Default So theres this girl, how to number close

    Hi everyone. So there's this girl that has a private lesson right after me on tuesdays. Right after i finish my lesson she comes in and she has her lesson. So its relatively hard to actually have a conversation with her, keep in mind the teacher is always there. So im trying to find a way to get her either to have a coffee with me after her lesson, or her number. but getting her number would seem to fast considering i havent had a decent conversation with her. How should i go about this?
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    Default Re: So theres this girl, how to number close

    Talk about something you have in common and in this case may be it's your lesson. Make a funny observation or whatever about something to prompt an answer from her and you can use it later as a reminder of who you are. You haven't divulged much besides a girl and a common lesson. The gist of it is for you to simply start talking and from there you can get her to give you her number. Number closing isn't the hardest obstacle, I get away with "hey you got whatsapp?". This obviously comes after an introduction.

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    Default Re: So theres this girl, how to number close

    Thanks dude,
    Yeah that make sense. So it would be better to get her number instead of straightforwards asking we should go for a coffee after your lesson, or something around these lines...?

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    Default Re: So theres this girl, how to number close

    I didn't mean go straight for the number. Talk first, she needs to feel that you are a 'safe' and cool dude. Asking for a girl's number is not that hard. This hardships of making getting a number as the biggest obstacle stems from school yard play thing. You'd be surprised at how you can get numbers as it is very easy for a girl to ignore or block your number so girls can throw them away easily at guys.

    Making a funny remark or observation about something like jokignly say you should have had Dumbledore as a professor instead of the one you got now. If she smiles, you go "this is probably the first time I've seen you smile. Its cute." You basically have an ice breaker and have the conversation naturally flow.

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    Default Re: So theres this girl, how to number close

    Alright cool. Thanks dude!

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    Default Re: So theres this girl, how to number close

    The issue here is , you can't Isolate her ..... that's a problem because it will be hard to build attraction in the thirty seconds you pass each other in between lessons ..... There is something you can do but it requires BIG BALLS. I would stick around until her lesson is over and when she is leaving say to her "Why don't we go grab some coffee" ....if she agrees you have isolated her and then you can do your thing and work into a phone number
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    Default Re: So theres this girl, how to number close

    Quote Originally Posted by Grey2fox View Post
    I didn't mean go straight for the number. Talk first, she needs to feel that you are a 'safe' and cool dude. Asking for a girl's number is not that hard. This hardships of making getting a number as the biggest obstacle stems from school yard play thing. You'd be surprised at how you can get numbers as it is very easy for a girl to ignore or block your number so girls can throw them away easily at guys.

    Making a funny remark or observation about something like jokignly say you should have had Dumbledore as a professor instead of the one you got now. If she smiles, you go "this is probably the first time I've seen you smile. Its cute." You basically have an ice breaker and have the conversation naturally flow.
    I would suggest the same. Play it smart.

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    Default Re: So theres this girl, how to number close

    How do you two suggest he starts a conversation when they pass each other briefly in between lessons and the teacher is there ?????

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    Default Re: So theres this girl, how to number close

    Lol exactly. Thats the problem. Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: So theres this girl, how to number close

    You can do what dragonsfire said OR you can do this.

    Stop caring if she has a lesson or that the teacher is there. Be very direct. Tell her you think she's beautiful because of (whatever trait you like about her) and that'd you like to get to know her better. If this is outside the door of the lesson hold her up for a few minutes. If the teacher is there just do it in front of the teacher. Then get her number and tell her you will contact her soon to set something up.

    I know what you're thinking right now, that this is a bad idea and you're scared. Well honestly you don't really have any other choice. This approach is extremely ballsy! The ballsier you are, the more points you win. She'll be absolutely shocked. This is a good thing! If you do it confidently she will be putty in your hands.

    Don't care what your teacher thinks. If they mention it to you or think it's inappropriate tell them "I thought she was very attractive so I told her the truth. There's nothing wrong with that". Your teacher can't be angry at you for that.

    If it doesn't work at least you did something. Doing nothing is the worst thing you can do. There's no point in being indirect with this situation. You just don't have the necessary time.


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