I have meet with this amazing woman who is my class mate. We eventually exchanged numbers I could see some IOIs from her so I invited her to my study group she came. Everything was good. I then took her to her place after the session around 12 midnight. I was teasing her along the way and I could see the smile on her face. On the turning point we kissed and I could see she is enjoying my company.
Then I went home. I sent her a whatsapp text saying, "I've been gun pointed". She responded, "Don't play like that next remember I have attacks. One thing u must know about me I'm a very sensitive person I take everything serious when I care". So I could see that she cares. Then she told me that there's one problem which she has a boyfriend.
Me: Real or imaginary?
Me: that's cool, you'll have something to do when we're not together
Her: Lol but I can't have two people at the same time, nah that's not how I roll
Me: But I love you and I know you like me too. We can't just give up like that you know
Her: Yes but I aint available
Me:It's not like you are married. And my feelings for you are real
Her: Yes I know I'm not married but then I committed myself in only one relationship
Me: Don't blame me falling for you cause you actually the one who tripped me
Her:How did I trip you??
Me:hijacking my feelings and stealing my heart
Her:And how did I do that??
Me: I'll tell you in person. It's good that you made your commitments but you didn't situations like these might come up. I won't make you leave your bf but cause that would mean someone in future can manipulate you to leave me
Me: You've to understand that you could mean an entire world to me. I care about you so much as you do I know. When I think of future with you everything else in the world becomes meaningless to me. Be my source of pleasure. You can't blame me
Her: Ya I don't blame and I can't blame you for sure it's what you feel
Me: Good that you understand the situation I'm in right now. I'm planing to NEVER EVER LEAVE YOU
Me: I also understand your fear because your boyfriend really appreciates you, because you're probably the best girl that he ever got, or ever will get. Since he knows that he'll never get a girl like you again, I guess he's just constantly frustrated and panicking that you'll leave him. So he needs you. I don't want to take you from him. And if you were single we were to be very fast in this relationship but now we have this one exception. You have to understand that nowadays it's rare to find someone who isn't in a relationship. So your case was expected. I truly mean it when I say I love you. I'm not that type of a person who would play with your feelings and heart. I've got what is called true love
Her: I get you
Me: My heart is mine..but whenever I argue with it about you....it always take your side which is a good sign of love. Come into my life and pay no rent.
Her: Ncoooow* that's so sweet
You see I was able to manipulate her successfully and disqualify her boyfriend. Now she is no longer telling me about her boyfriend. Another thing she did we are supposed to go to another college for school competition but she is no longer going since I told her I'll be going and what is so called her boyfriend will be there. Now the way I see this is that she doesn't wanna get conflict with her boyfriend. She doesn't know that I know who her boyfriend is.
Now she didn't want to come fetch some notes she needed to my place because she knows what might happen. I think it's because her comfort levels are low. At this point what can I do to increase her comfort level. I believe she likes. I want to invite her to my place. Make her comfortable and make out with her later. If I were to describe her I would say she is the one.