So technically I'm not a new member to the forums but it's been quite a while since I've posted as dating etc has really been on the back burner for me with a lot of stresses that had pretty much taken over my life.
Well things are looking up and although I had some success at the start of the year with a few girls and getting a couple of F-closes with a HB7, 8 and 9 and even having short flings but these weren't girls I wanted anything more with after a while. I want to find a girlfriend, but I can't seem to repeat my earlier success and I'm not sure why, I'm actually in a better place now.
I've lost 11lbs so far though I still have a long way to go until I'm happy, I'm working again and generally things are on the up compared to six months ago. I mainly use PoF but again that seems to have dried up for me and although I don't think I'm doing anything different my success rate although not great has plummeted to where I'm hardly getting messages back, women just view my profile and that's it not a peep out of them.
I'm pretty lucky that I'm the head doorman of a very busy bar absolutely crammed full of HB's but the problem is I'm usually pretty much stuck on the front door all night only getting to talk to girls if they pop out for a smoke and then I'm competing with younger better looking colleagues where my only advantage is my height at 6ft8.
I'm genuinely at a loss and a complete AFC.... Guys I need help!