I used to practice the Arts all the time, I eventually went to school and just kind of let it slip away. Before I fell out of it, I would practice 3 or 4 nights a week for about 3 years. I've been out of the game for about 4 years now, and I feel my vision may be clouded
6 months ago, I met a girl on tinder, we dated, fell in love, I ended up moving into the city in my own apt on the same street as hers, we got two cats together, matching tattoos, and talked about marriage and kids on a daily basis. Since I first spoke with her 6 months ago, there hasnít been more than 24 hours when we havenít talked. If I didnít message her, she would message me. She eventually started spending every single night at my place. We fought quite often, but neither of us wanted to be away from each other at night.
2 weeks ago, she went out with some friends, and was out till about 4 in the morning, she was supposed to be back, but she was rolling (something we promised to only do together) Long story, I got pissed off bc she lied about it, lost my shit, packed up everything she owned in garbage bags and brought it to her place in front of her friends (I know, total rookie move and probably the most psycho thing I have ever done)
2 days later, we got back together, and we hooked up, then we hooked up the next day (she told me that her friends couldnít know we were back together because she didnít want them to know that a guy could hurt her like that and she would take him back, I told her okay) .. The next day, as I am 900$ tickets for a show for us in Georgia, she tells me that she thinks we shouldnít hook up for 2 weeks, I say okay (I donít believe her) but whatever its cool.. Then a couple of days after that, she says that she doesnít think we should be together at all, that we should be just friends (WTF I THOUGHT I GOT HER BACK). I ask her on a date (what would have been our 6 months) she says yes, buy her pearl earrings (which she still wears, dinner, drinks, and during dinner, she reminds me that we should still be friends (UGH).
It gets worse, She calls me up, and I play hard to get, I say, its cool if you just want to be friends I understand, she says okay, she cries, and hangs up. She calls back and says, wait, maybe I made a mistake, I say: wellÖ Iím on tinder, and Iím talking to somebody. ONCE AGAIN DUMB FUCKING MOVE BY ME!
She says thatís it, she hangs up, I try to call her back and she wonít answer.
Next day, we talk sheís pissed at me still, I say at least lets try to be friends. She accepts , I tell her I want to earn her trust back the right way, she says okay but I just want to be single, and honestly, I donít know if I want to date anybody, and I donít know if I can ever trust you again, so we can be friends but nothing else.
So here I am, Last night I met up with her and her friend, she was drunk and she kissed me, then she says it was a mistake, and it wonít happen again.
So here I am, she says she still wants to be just friends for a while, she says she wants me around but doesnít want to date anyone. I tell her I want to earn her trust back, and she says that I shouldnít try bc she doesnít want to get back together.
1 Please spare me the (damn bro, youíre a tool) trust me I already know..
2 Please donít even reply unless u think u can help
3 this girl actually is my best friend, she is the woman I want to marry and start a family with, and I donít want to hear the whole ďthereís a million fish in the seaĒ been there, done them, this is the one..
By the way, I NEED HELP FAST, because we have tickets to a show next weekend and I want to go with her, she says she wants to go with her friends.
Let me also just say sorry to the PUAís for failing so bad here, I was always the man to do the openers, I would hit on the fat chick for the sake of my fellow wing men, I obeyed the code, and I am not coming back to seek help from the community.