I have a situation that you might be able to help me with.
So I will keep this as short as possible:
Im 21 years old from Sweden. I met a girl (shes 19) at a nightclub for like 1 year ago, we kissed ALOT that evening, but we didnt take it further on. So during this year, we've been texting a little (like 3-4 times) and she is kinda flirty in the texts, and she tells me she wants to meet up, but as I ask her, she always responds with something like she cant, she's sick, something came up etc etc. A few days went past and I initiated contact again.
I tried to be funny and told her whe should do a question game where I ask her a question, then she asks me a question and so on. Well it didnt really work out as after a few texts she said "well I hate these kind of things where you have to think of things :P"
So then I just went for it and it goes like this:
Me: Well, what I remember, you're a really cute and cool girl and it would be really fun to meet up
Her: Well then lets do it
Me: Awesome! We can talk later about it
Her: Yea (Y)
*Two days passes and I initiate:
Her: Nah nothing, just came out of the shower ^^ you?
Me: Really.. Nah Im home watching tv
Me: Bring some friends to our party next weekend?
Her: What day?
Her: Yea maybe I will try to force some of my friends
Me: Haha I thought u guys were party girls?
Her: Oh no, they have been getting very boring lately </3
Me: Aaaaw.. If they dont want to, then u should come home to me so that we can watch a movie and cuddle someday instead :*
Her: Sounds good
So yea... I know that I really fucked up this conversation with all my boringness.. The last message was sent this wednesday (7th of october).
Its monday tomorrow, and the party is on friday. When and what should I text to see if she comes? Becasuse if she wont come, I will try to ask some other girl instead, so I dont want to wait until the party and hopes she texts me b4 that, because if she wont come, I have no1 instead...
What is your opinion?
Niklas from Sweden