Hey, won't use my real name because it is pretty unique. Probably the only guy in Houston with this name. Call me "T". "Nice guy" from Houston. 32 and slept with 11 women in my life. Always the friend and I guess I manage to get lucky every once in a while. Been working out lately and getting in shape. Girls say I am cute and handsome but once I get their attention, my nice guy personality seems to turn them off and automatically "friend-zoned". I am nice to everyone, just how I was raised. (Unfortunately by mother who is a little over bearing and my sister who is a Saint). My dad wasn't really around. Bread winner but didn't teach me shit. Have a brother but he wasn't around either. Perfect example. Work with a girl at my job who gets all the guys attention. I am probably the closest to her. Known her for a year but for the first couple of months we definitely flirted. She would snapchat sexy pics, texts etc. she would make jokes about is making out or hanging out etc. when I actually asked her out, she gave me the "I'm going through a tough break up, not ready." And low and be hold I find out she's dating someone else through the grape vine. Confront her and she gets upset with me etc. Now I have to see her everyday and sometimes she's nice and sometime she genuinely treats me like shit. She gets flirty every once in a while but I'm seriously jaded with her. But I mess up and buy her coffee every once in a while. Pitiful, I know. Well, just tired of picking up scraps. Ready to take charge and be a little more alpha.