As the title says, thats my situation. Been trying to 'play the field' but pretty difficult. I am in decent shape (do gym, kung fu and jui jitsu), run my own contracting business but very introverted which makes it harder for me to socialise.
Don't want to overload myself with pick up information as that will make me overthink and freeze (learnt from martial arts), where is a good place to start?
I watched some of Todd Valentines stuff, he seems cool.