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    Timber is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Time to start living

    Hi everyone,

    I just picked up "The Game" upon a recommendation from a guy I met at a bar. I have always been pretty shy but I have been working on it as of late. Along with being shy comes Approach Anxiety. I have to utmost confidence that I will conquer it.

    Timber

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    alphabeta is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Time to start living

    Hi Timber

    I'm in the Music Business and do a lot of Mentoring to Bands that are Starting out.

    In the dressing room pre-Show, someone always asks if they are 'Nervous' which could be very much likened to Approach Anxiety facing a Audience.

    But one Female Singer told me something that really hit home.

    She said 'I never think about either way, I just go on Stage and do my stuff'

    Like you I was always Shy myself but I've learned to overcome that, with eye contact and a smile and just as important is being a good conversationalist.

    So my advice for what its worth is to 'Mirror' this Singer and disconnect any anxiety by not thinking about it.
    The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least


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