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    Alesana is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Cool Not an average PUA guy

    Hey, I just thought I'd introduce myself here. I'm not the average guy you'll see on here, there are some things I won't change to improve my game.

    I'm not very masculine. I have some feminine traits, and I don't plan on changing that. My goal is to improve my game with girls who would go for a feminine guy.

    I have long hair. A lot of girls (especially where I live) like guys with short hair, but once again I am trying to improve my game with girls who can get past that fact.

    I don't plan on changing who I am, just learning how to keep girls interested in who I already am.

    I don't do horrible with women, I have had some pretty attractive girlfriends in the past.

    I live in a South American country (since a year and a half now), and while I can speak Spanish pretty well, there are some things about Spanish I still have difficulty with. This makes it a lot harder to talk smoothly.

    One of the main things that I am trying to improve right now is my texting game. I am going on Tinder and I make tons of matches, I just want to learn how to do my best building up attraction in those matches.

    I look forward to seeing you all in the forums.

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    Default Re: Not an average PUA guy

    Hey man,

    Here's a quick tip on texting, which is an interesting art because it keeps changing as we go. Texting 3 years ago was a totally different dynamic than now it's crazy.

    Most people will say wait like "3x longer" than she waited to text back, and not texting back immediately obviously, or other specific time constraints. Simply make your life so busy/not care about the phone enough to check, and they start to chase the fuck out of you. Especially tinder girls, because they are anticipating you to give them all the attention, and try to get a hookup out of them that night. If you get their numbers, flirt, keep it light, and sometimes forget to even text back for 30 hours, they begin to wonder what is going on.

    I have used this technique in my regular game. If you make a great first impression especially, simply not texting back at all for a while because you are busy, is something women typically don't have to deal with. Most guys text first, most guys text back quick, and most guys always are the last one to send a message. Don't do most guy stuff. The last girl I worked with I did this to on accident, I didn't check my phone overnight and she brought it up the next day "why didn't you text me back jerk". I went home and checked, she had texted me many times over.

    This is one of those natural game effects that beats all the "gimmicky" pick up stuff.

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    Alesana is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Not an average PUA guy

    Huh, interesting. I have read a lot on texting and while I know you're sometimes supposed to unpredictably wait much longer to text back I thought that usually you only wait a little bit longer than it takes for them to text you back.

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    Default Re: Not an average PUA guy

    Don't be too restricted by dogma. Things like this vary from people to people. I didn't reply for about 10 hours to a woman, and she deleted me off this app I added her on. Waiting too long can convey disinterest, which turns some women off. The general rule is just to have a busy lifestyle, so that you don't seem like you're texting all the time.


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