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Thread: New here and don't know really where to start

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    Post New here and don't know really where to start

    Hi guys.

    I'm from Mauritius, i'm 21 and i have been watching some of the PUA videos on youtube which was super interesting for a guy like me who had only one gf in my life which i never had the opportunity to kiss and really go out with her (have a proper date)and she broke up with me :/ (I still love her :/ ). Seeing all those posts here made my day but also i dunno where to start.

    I'm too much of a nice guy i think, and guys i really need your help. Also in Mauritius its quite hard to get girls as they are not really open minded (which is quite a big hassle ...)

    Grateful if you can help me on where to start like
    1. How to talk to them without saying unnecessary things
    2. How to have a proper body language
    3. How to text/chat
    4.How to get the date
    5.How to become a man..(like you guys) not being like some kind of toy for girls/women, becoming emotionally strong....
    Im writing a bit too much, sorry about that...

    I would really appreciate your help guys and girls out there

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    Default Re: New here and don't know really where to start

    Hey, welcome to the forums. How are you usually around women? How do you interact with people? How do you approach them? Do you approach random people, or just people from your circle? How big is your circle? How often do you go out? What do you like to do for fun? What do you want to get out of pickup? Give as much detailed information about yourself as possible please

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    Default Re: New here and don't know really where to start

    hey thanks!

    well normally i'm just friendly with them which obviously put me in the friendzone, in terms of approaching i find some excuse to talk to start a conversation but not for long and basically not even getting the number. Normally, i approach people in my circle and my circle is very small, i tried approaching random women(as i said before they are not as open minded as those in your country) but as i said i failed to get their number. Well i rarely go out because of work but when i do i go out mostly with my collegues as my friends are studying abroad. I like youtubing, swimming and playing badminton for fun though from time to time i might read a book which i find interesting. To be honest i would like to go out with lot of girls, make them crave for me like Richard LARuina does or any other PUA guy.

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    Default Re: New here and don't know really where to start

    well what I would advise you..
    1. cold approach girls and don't try to be just their friends, make your intentions clear either verbally, or by subcommunicating through insinuation and your body language/touch. Inevitably you will have to make your intentions clear if you want to kiss her, get her number or even have sex with her, but you won't be able to do this if you are acting like you just want to be friends. I highly recommend that you make your intentions clear from the very start, if she rejects you - fine, you were true to yourself and did not pretend like you didn't want to kiss her and what not, and you just saved yourself a whole lot of time, money and energy by figuring out that she's not interested soon.
    2. Start dating - it doesn't matter who, if it's through tinder, okcupid, some girls you know that you want to ask out or if it's just girls that were interested that you cold approached. Try to arouse them, touch them, kiss them - I advise this doing during the date and not when you're just approaching girls is because you both know that you're here to find out wether or not you'd click and not just as a friendly meet up. Once you get comfortable doing this, try to implement this to your cold approaches - making your intentions clear, this should definitely make you get in the habit of not acting as a friend when you obviously feel something else for the person.
    3. Make friends - widen your circle, approach girls not only to date them, but simply for friendship, you get 2 things out of this - you get more comfortable approaching girls because this really eases the Tension because you're not thinking to yourself "get her number, get her number, get her number", naturally it will get easier with every approach. Another thing - girls have friends, often a lot of them - you can date the girls' friends by warm approaching them. And a bonus - girls are automatically more attracted to guys that are surrounded by women.

    Hope this helps, good luck

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    Default Re: New here and don't know really where to start

    Thanks for the advice Alergy

    BTW could you please advise me on the materials i could use to improve myself for examples books and videos, that would really help.
    Also regarding to make my intentions clear that's one of my problems i have communicating(i try to be careful so as not to say something hurtful cus girls often say that im a little too perverted...)

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    Default Re: New here and don't know really where to start

    an old clasic that - Models by Mark Manson, it explains fairly well everything from a to z

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