Whaddup all?
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Just wanted to introduce myself as I plan on spending a lot of time here practicing and honing my skillz.* I am a new PUA just coming off of a long absence from the field.* A few years ago I picked up David D’s “Double your Dating,” and read his stuff.* It totally changed my life and my approach to women.* Within a month the best and worst thing that could have possibly happened, happened.*
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I met this fine, fine 10 in a bar, 19yo, 5’1, dark brown hair, thin, D-cup. I wooed her like a master and before you know it I was in a serious relationship … *and then the crazy came out!* I broke it off about a year ago and I have been single ever since, sitting at home, playing WoW and enjoying the peace and quiet J.* But it’s time to get back out there and get my game back up to par.* I can’t wait!* Here is my game plan! Holla at me and let me know what you think!
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1)***** Gotta get in shape and get some new threads.* I put on some weight over the last year.* I am about 5’8” 230 and I want to get down to 200 before I go out and do some damage.* Also got a big raise at work and now I can afford to look pimp.
2)***** Going to start talking to more women and work my day game while I am improving my appearance. Not ready to hit the club scene just yet.
3)***** I am a big fan of David D, but I am going to thumb through some of the other masters’ stuff (not gonna pay big bucks for a seminar I don’t need though) and get some new ideas.* I have to see how the game has changed in the 3 years since I have been out.* I am also in sales and I have noticed a striking similarity between sales training and PUA training.* Basically the same method except you are asking “Do you have the money in your budget for this project?” instead of “can I get them digits?”* What worked for me in sales was to take the best aspects of the training I read and integrate it into my own system.* I think if you see this stuff as dogma it makes you overthink things and you ultimately fail.* If I can fill my head with facts and situational tools instead of executing a system then my game will be more versatile and more natural.*
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Some other random thoughts:
********** 1)***** I am not in LA, NY, Chicago, or any other major city. I am in Pittsburgh PA (GO PENS!!).* The ladies here are a bit different than anywhere else**I*have lived.* First off there is a heavy concentration of hotties around.* We are a college town.* There are literally 5 universities in the downtown area and you can’t throw a rock without hitting a 9 or a 10.* The challenge is that while we are a target rich city people are in that “relationship,” mentality.* It is very rare to see a girl date more than 1 guy at a time, and consequently most guys are locked into that model as well.* As much as I liked banging my ex before she lost her pretty mind, I would like to stay on the prowl as much as possible.
2)***** When I picked up David D’s book 3 years ago it was like a light bulb went off in my head.* I thought back on all of the success that I had had with women before and all the failures and I realized that I had picked up the girls when I was lucky to do this stuff by accident and I failed when I acted like a wuss (because that’s what my mommy told me to do to attract nice girls!).*
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For example, a couple of years ago when I first started going to school and before I had picked up the book I walked into my first class and sat down next to a 2 set comprised of a 10 and a 9…
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Me: “Hey, what are your names?”
10: Brooke
9: Brittany
Me: (faux valley girl voice) “Brooke and Brittany? What a stereotype, am I on the Real World or something?”
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By week 3 I had the 10 doing my nails in class. I was just too much of a dope to pick up on the IOIs
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And when I picked up my ex-girlfriend I was wearing a garish yellow newsboy cap.* I had never even heard of The Mystery Method or peacocking theory, it may not even have been out yet, but something in me already knew how to pick up girls.
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If you have read this long thanks for hanging in, this is the first day of the rest of my life and I am jazzed as hell to . Please tell me what you think of my strategy and if you have any thoughts/tips I would be much obliged.* Also my friends are all AFCs and are either in relationships or are terrified of leaving their apartments.* If anyone is out there in the Pittsburgh area hit me up and we can exchange contact info and go out and wreck this town!