Hey, I know I am new here, but I need some advice. This girl and I have liked each other for about a month now, we have kissed and such. She ended up telling me that she likes me but she likes someone more…her boyfriend. I thought I would try to stay out of it. Not mention the bf unless she does and is looking for me to say something about him, (in which case I have been playing the “he is a little insecure, it isn’t his fault” tactic to lower her opinion of him without me attacking him). I have been hanging out with another girl some (who is leaving the country so I don’t want to start anything with her) and this makes the girl very jealous. Recently she started to think that I was simply using this girl to get her jealous and talked to her boyfriend about it. He told her I was trying to play her and saying that he was insecure in order to get her to leave him. Since then I have made her realize she was over reacting, and she said that she did still like me but was with someone else first. She asked me what I truly thought of her boyfriend (she bugged me for weeks to tell her) so I turned to honestly. I told her I thought that they weren’t a good match. She got defensive and said I had no right to say that about them. Anyway I am at a loss as for what to do.