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    Whisk Guest

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    Hey, I know I am new here, but I need some advice. This girl and I have liked each other for about a month now, we have kissed and such. She ended up telling me that she likes me but she likes someone more…her boyfriend. I thought I would try to stay out of it. Not mention the bf unless she does and is looking for me to say something about him, (in which case I have been playing the “he is a little insecure, it isn’t his fault” tactic to lower her opinion of him without me attacking him). I have been hanging out with another girl some (who is leaving the country so I don’t want to start anything with her) and this makes the girl very jealous. Recently she started to think that I was simply using this girl to get her jealous and talked to her boyfriend about it. He told her I was trying to play her and saying that he was insecure in order to get her to leave him. Since then I have made her realize she was over reacting, and she said that she did still like me but was with someone else first. She asked me what I truly thought of her boyfriend (she bugged me for weeks to tell her) so I turned to honestly. I told her I thought that they weren’t a good match. She got defensive and said I had no right to say that about them. Anyway I am at a loss as for what to do.

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    Default Re: New and not without issue

    you failed her shit test. many of us have found this place while looking for help regarding BFs. you should have said the classic pua line: you deserve a and list all the good qualities of yourself while listing qualities the bf is bad at.

    dont get stuck on this girl. get many more. Also you should have Fclose the girl thats leaving the country. its too easy to let it pass.

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    Default Re: New and not without issue

    Ok, here is where I sound stupid...I know what a sh!t test is, but how did I fail it? I thought I was very calm (even when she got mad and said I had no right to say those things about her relationship) about the whole thing, and when she kept bugging me for my opinion, I did say that she deserved "this" kind of treatment while he was giving her "that", and tied it all up with you guys just aren't right together. Consequently today I talked to her and she mentioned buying flowers. I told her "How come you never send me any" as a joke, she replied with "well you don't send me any either," so I said, "I am currently growing them to send to you", and she said "I am sure :P". Would it be too much of a move to send her some here in a week? I think that it probably would be but I figured I would ask since I have a topic on here.
    Last edited by Whisk; 05-18-2010 at 06:36 PM.

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    Default Re: New and not without issue

    buy some seeds that are half way and plant them in your house or w/e..then show her..don't buy her flowers.

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    Default Re: New and not without issue

    lol ok well u did fail the test cause what do most AFC's do when they bug you long enough to give them an answer. They say, he isnt right blah blah blah. Usual afc crap. what you really needed to do was say that u liked her but was trying to respect her relationship at the same time so you werent using the girl to get her jealous, you were talking to her and respect there relationsihp. boom passed cause you still showed that you like her and your not putting down her boyfrined. ur also DHVing here cause you show your not needy, clingy, jealous or controlling over who she dates. youre letting her choose. But if you wanted i would get something that blooms and just give one to her that is like half grown. it doesnt look bad cause you didnt get her flowers and it follows ur joke//story.

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    Whisk Guest

    Default Re: New and not without issue

    Ok, thanks for the flower advice. I did say that I wanted to stay out of it. I had been telling her for weeks when she kept bugging me that I liked her but didn't want to get in the middle cause I respected the values of a relationship. But she said "no that is a cop out, what do you really think of my relationship" and I didn't want to look like a push over too afraid to answer a question.


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