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  1. #1
    Guyush Guest

    Default Friend from work. Need help.

    Hi.. my name is guy.
    I am pretty sure that my English will be sucks.
    so if you can understand me anyway and can help thanks a lot!
    if its not belong to this forum please move it! thanks.

    First, i have finish to read Magic bullets book only before 2 days.
    so i am new in Pick up and etc.
    but never though about "Pick up girls" i had girlfriends and Etc from my regular life.
    but i never saw how much its hard to pick up some 1 you really want! even more then 1 night with her.

    so this is the story.
    she is a really cute and beautiful girl.
    and we work with me.. (i am in the army so i see her like few times in day..)
    but like 3 days in week.
    but sometimes in the evening we sit with friends just for fun and not in work.

    so the thing is.. i really wanna get this girl.
    i never had a problem to talk to a girl or something like that.
    in best words "if she wants.. why not? if not go away"
    so the problem is that i don`t know if she want too. and if yes i don`t know what to do!

    even i read the book.

    so tonight we seated alone just me and her.. for like 2 hours.. and talk..
    i notice to you that i read the book magic bullets. so first i don`t need to use openers or something like that.
    just start talk with some interesting stories about my self and etc.
    for real?! she looks like she really get in to it!!

    she played with her hair.. and even told me stuff like "I don`t think there will be any reason if 2 friends will sit alone and make it like.. its must be for something"

    (because we talk about "friends and etc")

    and what we did?! we seated alone just me and her for fun! like what she said and its say something about us. (i think.)
    so i tried to make Kino its really hard for true. its the hardest part for me.
    but she touch me few times. and me too. and also checked her hand for "future" hehe.

    so.. i really wanted to kiss her but the problem its will be so lame..
    because we friends from work.. and in the first time we sit alone and get each other closer i`ll be kissing or try?!

    when we finish i took her home and she give me her "cheek" to kiss her cheek.
    i don`t sure if its called "cheek" but you know.. close to mouth hehe..
    so..

    the problem its that i don`t know if i did a good job or bad?!
    because when we talk i saw that she really get in to.

    (i talk more then her.. and make her laugh.. some friendly touch.. and compliment on things i like she do. and even say bad when its bad. and make "plans" for us to the future.. in good ways.

    so what do you say?
    what i did wrong or bad?
    she looks like she really enjoy and maybe she want to meet like 1 - 2 times more.. to know each other.. (in our country the girls so hard!!)

    and what you say about the kiss? i should even try and fail or its good i get her waiting?

    thanks so much to the PUA that will answer to me!
    sorry for my bad English..

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    Default Re: Friend from work. Need help.

    ok well first off not bad for isolating her and using stories to build rapport. and some of the places in here didnt make sense but i think i have an idea of what you said. like the cheek thing. did you mean she offered to kiss you on the cheek or what was that. not bad but there could be lots of things you could do to improve. the overall thing is, since you guys are "friends" in a way. you have to build a sexual attraction with her. so obviously you already have her comfortable around you and you have trust. the thing you need to do is build rapport through deeper talks and through stories to show you have a strong frame. a frame is basically the way you precieve the world and your own reality. when you have a fun strong frame then women will adopt your frame and become a part of it. if i was to suggest a product for you i would suggest The Vibe cause that can really help you with conversations and how to build an attraction with this girl.

    so next time you should invite her out with you to something your already doing with your friends and show her a great time and show her you have an amazing frame and that the ur frame is something she wants to be a part of. when your out you should be completely alpha and just worry about having fun and then at times show that your interested and maybe try isolating her and going for a kiss close and maybe a quick deep talk to build rapport. but the overall theme is to have fun. dont worry about making her night fun cause if your having fun and she is adopting your frame, then she is going to have fun. this gives you a chance to keno a ton. try anything from leading her to anything like gamblers techniques on sexual keno under the radar. an example is trying to grab her hand to being her with you somewhere but you miss and touch an intimate place like her thigh and then just ignore it and quickly fix by grabbing her hand and bringing her along. one situation for this would be bringing her with you to go get shots but you have to go through a group on the dance floor. perfect scenario for an under the radar sexual escalation.

    good luck
    Last edited by crobinson1; 07-20-2010 at 05:28 PM.
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  3. #3
    Guyush Guest

    Default Re: Friend from work. Need help.

    thank you very much!!
    for real, i think I know what you mean and i want and wish i will do them.
    in few days i`ll invite her again to something more then "sit in park" and show her who`s the alpha :P
    few things come from that.
    1, she will see that I invite her go out with me. (i`ll not ask i will do for sure )
    and show her that I am doing fun all the time and get deep conversation with her. so we will be more close to each other.
    and before i get into "BEST FRIEND" i will try kiss her. with something cool like a secret that i need to speak weak and close to her..
    and then i hope its will do that.

    this is what you mean i have to do?
    if it is.. i go on it!

    and I am so happy that you said " ok well first off not bad for isolating her and using stories to build rapport"
    because its what i read in the book and its really work!

    about the way, when i give her to talk i really listen and got understand what she like and what she don`t and i use them to make a contact between as like she say something that she don`t like so i told her like "really? for real.. "
    and tell her why i don`t like it too in other ways.

    and its work for me.
    what you say.. to keep this or i do mistake?

    * just saw what you said in edit -
    i`ll do that, thanks!

    the thing is.. go have fun only fun! and be alpha.
    in times to get her closer to me like getting her hand and go to bar for shoots.. so the point is to lead her.
    and on the way.. to try some cute touch and don`t be mind of it and "fix" it by holding her hand =]
    and when i get alone.. maybe its will be the time for the kiss. or a deep conversation.

    m8, your amazing. thanks so much
    Last edited by Guyush; 07-20-2010 at 05:51 PM.

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    Default Re: Friend from work. Need help.

    yeah actually if your going to invite her out. do it to something where you can have tons of fun. i would suggest a club and to get a HUGE group to go so you guys are the life of the party. and then you could actually play a game like the 5 question game and put a bet on it where you can build sexual tension. i actually did this just the other day. i played the 5 questions game and the bet was if i lost i had to be her hot canbana boy (still sexual) but if i win i get a shiver and shack shot for my b day. the shiver and shack is fun but helps you build sexual tension and makes it easier for a kiss close if you get too nervous. basically i kiss her neck and put salt on her neck. i put the shot of tequila in her cleavage and then the lime in her mouth. haha you know exactly whats going to happen from this. obviously i won cause i never lose that game. so now when she comes out for my b day, im going to build lots of sexual tension and escalate and fuck close her that night.

    ok so what you want to do is invite out a lot of people so you guys are the life of the party, learn some amoging just in case, Isolate her, build some deep rapport, build sexual tension, kiss close and then just be alpha.
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  5. #5
    Guyush Guest

    Default Re: Friend from work. Need help.

    thanks again for help crobinson1
    now I am gonna read about amoging

    and the 5 question game too because i don`t understand this game yet

    thanks and have a good day! :]

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    Default Re: Friend from work. Need help.

    sorry for double but i have last question for you crobinson1

    should i call her today (1 day after we was alone.) i mean in phone..
    or better i wait and if she want she call.
    and in few days to call her for invite her somewhere?

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    Default Re: Friend from work. Need help.

    actually i would just ignore her for another day and then drop the seed about having some fun and give her a nickname. nicknames are always an inside joke that builds rapport. one i did the other day was "hey feisty pants! what do you think about drinks, beer pong, flip cup and great company?!? I was thinking of inviting you if you dont embarrass me too much lol"

    so what i would do is wait and take today to ask people when they feel like having a party and then once you have it figured out drop a seed like your thinking of inviting her but your not sure yet. and then when she replies something like "well idk. that sounds like lots of fun" or something like that. just reply with something where you tell her she has to earn it cause this is very prestigious. basically just make her work for it. but yeah other than that just be fun, playful and different and dont be afraid to tease at all
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    Default Re: Friend from work. Need help.

    The question game is all over the internet. Just google it. If you cant find it let one of us know and we can explain it. It is also inside The Vibe and Ignite your Night. Both great products.

    And i agree with crob, blow her off for the next few days then hit her with soem solid text game build that attraction and get her going before you meet with her again. Then when you do its going to amp up her attraction to you causing her o want you more and more.

  9. #9
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    Default Re: Friend from work. Need help.

    I must say you are great
    Thank you for all your help and I'm sure that in the future I'll ask more questions.

    The truth, so I called to ask how she was today and i finished quickly the conversation.
    I know it's not so good but here in Israel is very difficult girls.

    I remember when I was abroad in different countries, to start with a girl there is so much fun they all flow
    Here? It's really, really hard.
    Again, thank you both for your help. If you have questions I'll be back to you!

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    Default Re: Friend from work. Need help.

    no problem glad we can help.

    BTW all areas of women provide their own set of challenges. Thats what makes it fun.


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