Re: Friend from work. Need help.
ok well first off not bad for isolating her and using stories to build rapport. and some of the places in here didnt make sense but i think i have an idea of what you said. like the cheek thing. did you mean she offered to kiss you on the cheek or what was that. not bad but there could be lots of things you could do to improve. the overall thing is, since you guys are "friends" in a way. you have to build a sexual attraction with her. so obviously you already have her comfortable around you and you have trust. the thing you need to do is build rapport through deeper talks and through stories to show you have a strong frame. a frame is basically the way you precieve the world and your own reality. when you have a fun strong frame then women will adopt your frame and become a part of it. if i was to suggest a product for you i would suggest The Vibe cause that can really help you with conversations and how to build an attraction with this girl.
so next time you should invite her out with you to something your already doing with your friends and show her a great time and show her you have an amazing frame and that the ur frame is something she wants to be a part of. when your out you should be completely alpha and just worry about having fun and then at times show that your interested and maybe try isolating her and going for a kiss close and maybe a quick deep talk to build rapport. but the overall theme is to have fun. dont worry about making her night fun cause if your having fun and she is adopting your frame, then she is going to have fun. this gives you a chance to keno a ton. try anything from leading her to anything like gamblers techniques on sexual keno under the radar. an example is trying to grab her hand to being her with you somewhere but you miss and touch an intimate place like her thigh and then just ignore it and quickly fix by grabbing her hand and bringing her along. one situation for this would be bringing her with you to go get shots but you have to go through a group on the dance floor. perfect scenario for an under the radar sexual escalation.
Last edited by crobinson1; 07-20-2010 at 05:28 PM.
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