ghost rider- new guy

im so pissed at myself right now.. I was at the gym with two friends working out and about 25 feet away was a blonde short HB9 who was waiting for her trainer i would suspect(he showed up later, asian dude) and she looked over at me probably like 4-5 times in a 2 minute time span. I knew i should have went up to talk to her, but i really didnt have anything to say to her. I was thinking of opening with the "i noticed you looking at me and i couldnt help but tell you if i wasnt gay i would have you at my place tonight." but i havent tried the gay approach and i dont know how well it would work for me.. then i had another Opener i thought of on the spot( i wear my dads side of the family ring, he passed away) and i was thinking of asking her how it looked on me and telling her i just got it, just as an opener.. but i chickened out. I saw her again on the way out of the gym, but she seemed way colder than she had earlier.. didnt look twice at me... talk about blowing it.. any advice?

3s rule right there dude. Get out of your own head and go take action. The gay opener can work, but you have to have time to build the Comfort with her after so in that situation I wouldn’t think of using that. To be honest a direct opener would work best. Something like, “I noticed you over here and thought you were really cute in your own sort of way, had to come talk to you to find out if there was more to you than meets the eye.” And then run with it after that. When you don’t have much time a direct is going to be your best bet. Get the number and work the game from there.

well said t.. I really want to find a good Opener for when i am in the gym and i am getting an eye, cuz let me say the gym i go to has so many good looking women its ridiculous. every woman in between 18-30 is HB 8-10, not to mention the gym also has a giant pool and poolside bar so even on my off days i like to just go chill poolside. its hot out here...

Why is it that a solitary girl is so much harder to pick up then a girl who is in a group with other girls. shouldnt it be the other way around?

I just had a thought too, could i have gone up to her and been like "hey my friends over there think your pretty cute, so I told em I would come over and talk to you since im personally not into blondes!" or does that just sound stupid, i feel like its a bit of a mouthful!

Why disqualify yourself if you going direct? That just makes you seem weak. In that situation I would go direct, and go hard. Don’t over expose yourself, but show her your interest in a manor where she has to do something to keep it going. That’s what the line I posted earlier does. One thing you’ll learn especially the further away from The Game you get is that PU has grown by leaps and bounds since that book was written. Yeah a lot of principals still apply but a lot more guys are going direct and trying to develop that Natural game. What I try to do is merge the best of both worlds. Don’t be afraid to go direct, don’t be afraid to go situational. Just open your mouth and say something to her. If you don’t try, you will never have success. Don’t over think it, just do it.

im liking your style t. thats some good points you make. I wish i could find some people in my area that already know how to properly sarge that could take me under their wing.

Whats up bro. Im in AZ and down to sarge, day, night, whatever. hit me up

yeah for sure bro.. send me a message with your cell number and a facebook if u have it.. I got a couple guys im teaching right now.. your welcome to come with us any time!

I would go with, "hey I noticed you staring at me, don't be shy, I figured id make it easier on you by coming over here and introducing myself" or something like that and go from there