ghost rider- new guy

Whats going on everyone?

Little back story about me..
I have been having some serious lady trouble with a current relationship im trying to get out of... so i asked the one person i could trust(my cousin). He said pick up the game by strauss, so i did. I read it and let me say i was amazed, its almost like lifting a veil off your eyes. Now I am here, looking to find some more adventure in my life in the one area that has never had much adventure.. women. Any help is welcome I am willing to fully share my current story/problem!

lets here the problem. me, tcomea and lots of other people on here try to be as helpful as possible and we also learn from each other. so lets hear it. story and problem so we can help you out

haha where to start. Ok I am 21 years old and i live in the scottsdale/phoenix area. The girl i have been talking to lives in show low with is appx 2-3 hours north of where i am. She added me on myspace about two months ago saying i looked familiar. We started talking and hit it off, but then problems started coming up. Her supposed ex boyfriend has said that they never broke up(according to her they did a month before we started talking), on top of that every time we make plans to actually see each other she cancels or says something came up. I even went up to showlow to surprise her and she freaked out and got pissed and told me she wasnt ready to see me yet, and to top it all off she also says that she loves me.. and I am just in a very uncomfortable situation. I dont want to throw that word around and while i really like this girl i cant honestly tell her i love her if in the back of my mind she may be dating someone else and i havent even hung out with her. I even told her i didnt want to talk to her till she could prove to me that she cared, cuz it just doesnt seem like she really does or she is playing me.. and the more i ignored her the more she kept texting and calling. Like i said i am just in a very uncomfortable situation, shes a definite 10 for sure, and i like everything about her, besides the fact that shes either really flakey, a total player, she cant commit to anything, or just straight up crazy.. any ideas or thoughts?

and also are there any wings in arizona?

We have some major oneidis going on here. Here is what I see from what you are saying. You really like this chick cause she is hot and you think she would be fun. However you haven’t spent any time with her except on the internet. And when you try to hook up with her it goes to sh1t right?

Well most likely she has another boyfriend and she is using the net as a way to flirt and have fun with remaining faithful to her BF. SO if I were you I would cut her off. Do a total Freeze Out, no phone, no email, no text no nothing till she is begging for you back. Then when she is at that point you make her work for you. Make her chase you and come see you.

While your waiting for this I suggest you go out and meet as many girls as possible. In Scottsdale that should be eat with all the beautiful women yall have there. Run some solid game on them and learn as much as you can. Learn to be the alpha male every woman wants. And after all these experiences see if this chick you have your mind on is still worth it.

Biggest thing: Learn to be the ALPHA. The leader of men, is always the leader of women.

yeah honestly I have just been looking for some good advice. We dont even use the internet anymore. She calls me 5/6 times a day and every night before she goes to sleep. its just annoying at this point cuz yes it does turn to sh1t every time. While yes it is some serious oneidis im also not stupid and I would love to run some game on some other beauties. No better time then the present i guess. Time to freeze this chic out.

bingo cut her off for a while. Nothing wrong with that. YOu might be able to go back and land it later once you have gotten stronger in your frame.

yeah pretty much.. are altimatums good or bad in your opinion? or should i just freeze her out with out any say!?

they are bad. They show weakness. Usually by giving someone an altimatum they will go the other way from you. Very beta move

good to know.. I knew there was a reason i came onto this site. In all honesty I love talking to girls. I find it very easy to Get Girls to laugh and have fun, but my problem has always been in the approach. Im extremely shy even when i know a girl is looking at me. I have decided i am just going to throw caution to the wind and go for it, I start my new job hopefully next week. First paycheck i get i am going to check out some of the scottsdale bars and places i havent been to since turning 21. Gotta go alpha as you would say haha