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  1. #1
    stevani Guest

    Default Good Looking DUDE!, with no game

    Hey

    A Little background my name is Steve I love making new friends especially girls. But I feel like that is holding me back in my sex life. I feel like its 10 times easier to talk to girls through my friends, however I will say this now I have about 10 HB10 that I am really good friends with and that's all. I talked to all of them in the beginning like I want something sexual and when I figure it wasn't working I quickly turned into that "best friend". So now you know a little about me, I mainly need up IN EVERYTHING ha. From walking up to girls especially a group of girls, because I my stomach gets so tight thinking about all the things that could go wrong. And I need to know how to Close its one of my biggest failures. I up for anything at this point.

    Quick story of my latest FAILURE I had. I was up visiting my friend (lets call her barbie) which is one of my HB10's. Barbie is on a dance of about 25 girls, I was up there for the weekend with one of my good friends and I told Barbie to have a party and get all these beautiful, flexible, and single girls to her apartment. Since I only see her about 5 times a year and of course Barbie invited all her friends over to her house. I was pumped to meet all these girls but as they all strolled on in, I honestly didn't know what to say because all these girls were drop dead gorgeous. So as an AFC to the 10th power I posted in the corner with my friend Matt for the whole night until we went to the bar....thinking to myself that I would have better luck since now I am entering this club with all these girls. When we get to the club and I see 4 girls together and me and my friend decided to approach them. However I never made it over to the girls I was sweating to much and scared of rejection that I just stood there. So being an AFC we went home with all the girls and that was the night.

    After this weekend I totally wanted to fix this problem I have and change my life forever. So if anyone can help me out please I need all the help I can get.

    (Right now I have the cocky comedy from David D. its pretty good but can't see myself doing any of it. I also have his Man-Transformation CDs which are freakin awesome and really interesting.)

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    Default Re: Good Looking DUDE!, with no game

    ok well first off, you probably have the confidence and abundance of women in your life. as long as you can sexually escalate and get over your Approach Anxiety, you will be getting girls left and right. but first things first, have to either get rid of approach anxiety or learn to live with it. some of the best things is starting to talk to random people without a goal. just go up to talk to them, after that you need to do the most ridiculous stuff that gets you out of your comfort zone until you can deal with your approach anxiety. personally i love just doing the wierdest stuff and i love bombing runs but more on that later.

    welcome to the community. you need to try and find a wing in your city so you can go sarging and practice. maybe your lucky and one of the more advanced PUAs on here lives near you!!
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  3. #3
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    Default Re: Good Looking DUDE!, with no game

    thanks I will take all the advice, and start using it. how would I find people in my town? any suggestions

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    Default Re: Good Looking DUDE!, with no game

    we have a thread on here called find a wingman in your area!

  5. #5
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    So this is the girl I have been working at sooooooo hard for. She is absolutely goregous, I actually kissed her friend on the left(aka which means the girl I want is on the left). I have been texting her for a while and for the first time I went to visit her at her school and pretty much what happen is that she couldn't come out, because her EX started bitching at her for no reasonnn. So I chilled with my other friends at the college, I felt kinda of sh1tty because I went up there for her and I didn't even get to see her. Idk what to do now, before it gets to late and we turn into friends or another guy comes in and scoops her up, any advice ?

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    well we need a full in detail report of the last time you guys hung out. everything from what was said to her body language and all that
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  7. #7
    stevani Guest

    Default Re: Good Looking DUDE!, with no game

    ok give me a day or so I have been really busy at work

  8. #8
    stevani Guest

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    last time we hung out was for my friends birthday, it was relaxed. It was honestly the first time we actually hung because we have been away at school and never really did much together. At the bar we talked for a little about random bullsh1t but I got her laughing giving her negs about her dress, and little stories about school. It was great and what I realized after a while is I started to overwhelm her with my presence..so much that other girls were not trying to talk to me that I didn't even know(which was great) but I felt like the only person I wanted to talk to was her, so ignored those girls. In the beginning she would sit down first and than pat down the spot right next to her (as for a single for me to sit right next to her), but at first I caught myself doing AFC things but i stopped got her to get up and talk to me. BUTTT like i said after a while I stop what I learned and turned straight back into my usual self/AFC and every time she pat the spot right next to her I would ran over (not literary) and sit next to her. I told her one time that she looked cute, and she blushed. I think this is where I farked up the most because it got kinda weird after this... So I was waiting outside with her in my car and she just started to throw like 50 questions at me I am guessing trying to judge if I am subtle for her...and I am pretty sure I failed that one. She comes home in a week

    Previous message up to like 2 days ago

    Kelli: Sorry I lost my phone..
    Kelli: Lol nvm
    Me: Oh ok Kellieee
    Me: And feel better loser
    Kelli♡: Thank you but I'm not a loser!
    Me: Come over and give me a massage and I will make you soup and give you a masage
    Me: What are you being for Halloween?
    Kelli♡: Hi bo bo face I didn't want to dress up so I'm just being kimmie
    Me: Boring Kelli I had higher expectations
    Kelli♡: Oh hush I'm too hot to dress up pshh
    Me: Wow you deff just lost points
    Kelli♡: Screw you it was a joke
    Me: I know it was so relax my comment was a joke too butthead
    Me: What you need to be is my grandma tonight because I am a grandfather for Halloween
    Kelli: Sorry I was getting ready I know I saw your costume classic
    Me: Ha its fine
    Kelli: Stfu!
    Me: Love you too
    Kelli: Ohh sorry wrong person
    Me: Oh than I don't love you
    Kelli: Yes you do
    Me: You wish
    Me: You hate but you know that mean you love me Kelli so hush
    Kelli: Haha I know I'm just just kidding..
    Me: I know you miss you can just tell me
    Me: Miss me *
    Kelli: Haha oh of course
    Me: So how was Halloween?
    Kelli: I didn't do anything
    Me: Did you go out at least, no trick or treating?
    Kelli: No I didn't me and my friend were going to go out friday but we decided to drink at home
    Me: Ok that's alright, should of came by and scared you
    Kelli: Haha yeah you should've
    Me: How busy are you in the next couple of weeks?
    Kelli: Ill be home for laurens b day in two weeks!
    Me: My friend wants to come up to Towsan
    Kelli: Ohh ok like next weekend?
    Kelli♡: Ill be here for the next two weekends
    Me: Oh ok I gotta see what this kid wants to do ok than I will let you know, aka I am gettingsmashed if I come down to see you
    Kelli♡: Haha aka I will too
    Me: Well I take that back I will come down to have a good time, I don't want to be disappointed if I don't see you
    Kelli: You will hush
    Me: Blah blah Kelli
    Me: Wanna teach me how to dougie
    Kelli: Hahah yeah I would if I knew how to.. Ask elise
    Me: Massage?
    Me: do you even have plans this weekend
    Kelli♡: Umm no why?
    Me: Good keep it that way
    Me: Ha
    Me: Can we talk for a second?
    Kelli♡: What's up? I'm in the library but sure
    Me: This weekend sarah isn't going to be around much, do you mind me and my friend come up to see you on friday just for one night?
    Kelli♡: Ill be in udel on friday night!!! I would so let you but the game is on sat and I have to be there early and my parents are going my interview is airing liveeee I'm so sorry!
    Me: I guess I am not coming then I guess snothere weekend
    Me: Another*
    Kelli: Okkk
    Me: And my birthday is coming up there is no excuses to that Kelli
    Kelli♡: When?
    Me: December !
    Kelli: Haha okk okk
    Me: You will know about it I promise ok have fun at the library I am going to the bar I will take a drink for you
    Kelli: Haha oh gee thanks
    Me: Kelli gotta say I noticed the pics from your birthday and gotta say you looked so happy/drunk/cute
    Kelli: Haha I feel alseep at the bar! That's patetic
    Kelli: Do over on your b day
    Me: Ok next time do everything with out the sleeping part
    Me: Haha
    Kelli:
    Me: Hey Kelli butt
    Kelli: Hey
    Me: How you doing? There was a little girl in gymnastics class that was with long black hair with blue eyes and named Kelli nd I thought of you ha she was so sweet
    Kelli: But I've been okk just a lot of work
    Kelli: Her name was not Kelli I don't believe you!
    Me: Yeah same I am so stressed with so much work, and same and she told me that she hated me but I was hEr favorite instructor because I made her lauGh

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    Default Re: Good Looking DUDE!, with no game

    I found something that may help you. Get out of the friends zone!

  10. #10
    stevani Guest

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    ok thanks


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