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    jdturtle2001 Guest

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    Ok, so I was out at a club last night and met up with a bunch of people from work. She showed up drunk, but was clinging to me all night. It was at a hotel and she texted me that she was going to go up to her room. So I walked her up to her room and she changed right in front of me. Then she hugged me and we kissed. I helped her into bed and she passed out. Is she going to remember this the next day? Does she like me or was it just the alcohol? Should I call/text her today or act like it never happened? I would like to take things further with her.

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    Default Re: Need Help understanding this

    Alcohol affects everyone differently, maybe she does like you, maybe she will remember it, it's tough to say. Might be worth making sure she's feeling okay in the AM.

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    Default Re: Need Help understanding this

    Ive had pretty good success with a text the next morning ...

    Something like "How ya feelin champ?" ... Just a thought

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    Default Re: Need Help understanding this

    it depends on the alcohol. most people will loosen up with alcohol. so she probably does like you and the alcohol helped bring that out, but as far as remembering, haha thats on her. but yeah just keep it light and fun. nothing to serious cause you will seem needy or clingy with her just loosening up.

    so yeah something funny like "how ya feelin this morning champ, i cant remember the last time a girl drank me under the table :P"
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    Default Re: Need Help understanding this

    Cool, ok, just wanted to see if I was thinking right. I sent her a text this morning and she hasn't responded. So I'm guessing she may have been a little embarrassed by what happened. I was like, I bet you were hurting this morning. I'm just going to leave it alone and see how she reacts to me next time I see her. Thanks for the input guys.

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    Default Re: Need Help understanding this

    just make sure you dont come off needy or clingy and just have fun. if she did forget have some fun filling her in on what she forgot.
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    Ok, so apparently she did forget. I went ahead and gave her an overview of what happened. She apologized. I told her not to worry about it and that she was pretty drunk and she seems fine with that. I think she didn't mean for that to happen and probably already regrets it. So, that looks like a fail. Oh well, I figured I wasn't her type anyways. It's a little disappointing, but it happens.

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    So things seem normal between us today. A group of us are planning on going to a haunted house this weekend. Should I ask her to go to test the waters?

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    Default Re: Need Help understanding this

    if you want her... yes

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    Default Re: Need Help understanding this

    Sure take the pressure off though.

    Tell her yall are going to the haunted house and she should come have FIN WITH yall.

    Reason I say this is it shows her that your not needy and you will have fun with or without her.


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