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Thread: Help me please

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    Jogador Guest

    Default Help me please

    Hi guys, been reading this board for a while and thought I'd drop in to make a quick post about how dissatisfied I am with my life.

    Last week was my 25th birthday and I have never so much as kissed a girl. There, I said it. This is a ridiculous situation to be in. In the past I just figured that it'll happen when it happens and I didn't worry about it... but then it didn't happen... and then it REALLY didn't happen.

    I have had multiple opportunities to bang girls... problem is, they were ALL fat girls... and UGLY fat girls at that. Honestly, I would prefer a life of involuntary celibacy than borking a fatty. Obesity is just so disgusting to me. I would happily bang any girl no matter how ugly, just so long as she wasn't fat.

    Everytime I go to a party I have every fat girl in the house pouncing on me. Why is this? Is it just that no other woman is interested in me? And I'm such a nice guy that I don't just tell them to fuck off and end up talking to them for like half an hour which probably further repels the good looking girls.

    I don't have high standards. I would give anything for a girl-next-door type chick even if she gave me all manner of shit. I just don't get it. I'm 6-2, 185 lbs, have masculine facial features, etc. I should be able to get an okay-ish looking girl even though I wear glasses and have bad skin... right?

    I've been reading Roissy's blog quite a bit and an interesting idea came up: rising obesity rates among women artificially inflate the value of women of healthy weight. Also, men suffer less than women for obesity in the sexual market - most fat losers have no problem with giving some fat slob a quick pump 'n' dump if they're mad drunk and just want to get their rocks off. But I'm not like that - I won't accept less than a 4 (maybe a marginal 3 if I'm really drunk). But it almost seems like I have this aura around me that repels all non-fucking disgusting chicks. WTF?

    What should I do? I'm thinking it might be best to just hang myself and hope I have better luck in the next life. I've already bought the rope. But a part of me thinks there might still be a faint hope for me and I should give it my best shot before I give up entirely. What would you do in my situation.

    I heard that Asian girls are a good option for nerdy white guys like me. I'm sexually ambivalent towards Asians, but I wouldn't rule them out if they were an option. I also heard Eastern Europe might offer possibilities. What do you think?

    So do you think there's any hope for me at all at this stage? Don't suggest hookers BTW, I tried that and she turned out to be a beached whale also, so I didn't go through with it.

    Thanks in advance for helping me out. I'm really tearing my self up about this and don't know what to do.

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    Default Re: Help me please

    There is hope,Girls can sense your vibe of " I hate my life, Im not pleased with it",that has to change, read some articles on inner game you have to be a confident alpha male.dont tell yourself "its gonna happen soon" act on it your the alpha male make it happen.the nationality of a girl doesnt matter, they are still girls, what I recommend you fix your inner game, work on peacocking like get a cool pair of glasses or consider wearing contacts,make sure you dont over do it on the peacocking, fat chicks are attracted to you accept it there's nothing you cant really do about that, that doesnt mean that you can only get with fat chicks,it just means that fat chicks are easy for you, you have to learn to attract the girls you want,have you ever tried talking to a girl who you liked? or have you always waited until girls come to you?

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    buddy, ive got a mate who from what i can read is just like you and i always insist on him finding things in his life which he can improve to make him feel better about himself, whether it be a new group of friends, a new job, new clothes or whatever.

    if you start feeling good about yourself then girls will see that confidence in your exterior. just because you are nerdy doesnt mean you cant be fashionable and confident and make a good first impression.

    theres a few good posts about building self-esteem on this site. you sohuld go check them out because i referred a friend to have a look at them and he's alot happier with his life now.

    cheer up, girls arent the end of the world

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    ok well first off no one even told u why the fattys like you. trust me i have the same problem and what i do is that im nice to them and then they talk about me and then i bang their hot friends.

    the reason guys like you and me attract the fatties is because we are bigger guys. fat girls dont like having the body complex so when they see a guy like me, 6'4 225, they think hey i wont feel so fat around this guy. so just stay nice to them and befriend them and maybe they have hot friends u can bang.

    ok next off, to feel better you need to change urself. your weight and height are normal so ur at least good with the losing weight part. but what you need to do is change by maybe clearing up your skin and IF u dont like ur glasses, try getting new glasses or go to contacts. but you need to make some self improvement to feel better about yourself. so then u can walk around like a man and be confident. oh and a good way to clear up ur skin is proactiv. its a 3step system that is very sensitive to your skin and it will clear it right up. just go buy a few packs so you can use it every day for a couple months and just see how ur skin changes.

    ok so after clearing up your skin and changing your glasses you need to work on inner game. honestly bro, you seem perfectly normal but AFC Adam once told me something ill never forget. its 3 things that all naturals have that make them naturally better at picking up women. even if u dont learn this game stuff to a tee and practice, if you change these three things u will have women if your life u want there.

    ok so he told me the three things are....
    1) confidence--- yes u guessed it. confidence is on this list because girls like confidence. when they meet a guy they can sense if he hates his life and doesnt really want to do much. girls want a guy with ambitions and confidence to just be who they are and not let anyone change that.
    2) abundance of women in their life-----this is something you need to work on. u cannot expect women to be in your life or stay in ur life when they start seeing their the only one. you can look like ur desperate for female attention. you just need to have a lot of women in your life that your either A) hitting on or B) friends with. you just need to have lots of women in your life. this is where those fattiesc come into play. when your nice to them and maybe a little flirty, they make the best friends ever. and then if they do have hotfriends, they will talk you up before u guys meet up. so just if u meet fatties that are nice and fun, just hang out with them and be fun and playful. they will eat that shit up.
    3)The ability to sexually escalate-----now this one is where a lot of guys mess up. they can be confident and have a lot of girls in their life, but by not being able to sexally escalate, they will not get women turned on and bam their they go to the friend zone. you need to know to sexually escalate if you want the chance at being with this girl

    ok and after all this you just need to learn to be the person people like to be around, the fun guy who needs to be at a party to make it fun. but one thing u need to do is start going out and making stories. you need to just go do some crazy shit and make some amazing dhv stories. trust me it will start making your life more fun. whether its jumping out of an airplane to just deciding to go to vegas off the drop of a dime. you need to start making ur life fun and something people want to be a part of and then trust me, girls will be in your life and in your bed. and dont worry about the kissing/virgin thing. its no big deal at all. it will happen you just need to think about it. some people dont care who there first time is with and some people hold it sacred. you need to figure out which one you are. and the kiss thing, since you never did it and u do want to do it, its time that we got it done because its better if you dont get scared kissing and just want to do it.
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    Default Re: Help me please

    Jogador, the first thing I wanna say is Man, please, be strong!! I really hate to hear anyone say they're contemplating suicide and this is your only post here, and you list some trivial things. I know this probably seems like a big thing in your life, but surely there are other big and important things that are causing your current situation and feelings. I Implore you, please seek help for those also. A lot of people battle depression for a wide variety or reasons, I really hope you're strong enough to talk to a professional and maybe get prescriptions or counseling, which is nothing to be ashamed of, to get you in a healthy state of mind. Women seem like nice comfort, but they surely will not alleviate any of your problems!! Please be strong and work on getting yourself in a strong and healthy frame. You're more important than bar-flys and easy chicks. We care about you man. So hang in there.


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