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    compgeni Guest

    Default OK new into. 27 year old virgin needs SOCIAL HELP.

    Hey guys. This is a new intro because I'm changing the way I do things.

    I'm Steve. I'm 27. And yes, I'm a virgin. I'm a bit short at 5'5. I was fat at 190lbs but am now a more respectable 155lbs, and getting in better and better shape every day.

    I need help not with just women and game but socially too. I dont have buds that go hit up the bars or clubs. I came from a VERY religious background and had it beat into me not to trust women or be alone with them, which is unfortunate. I want to be alone with women. I need some dudes to go hang out with. Although I could go to the bars alone and clubs, but I won't really have "friends" to go back to or a "pool party" on sunday to bring her to. Can I focus on just me and her? I suppose I'll still need dhv stories to tell her, to convey personality? Where should I begin? Id love to have farked a girl by Christmas, and/or have more women in my life!

    I'm one of those guys who has read everything, although I dont remember it all now. I know HBs and AFC and Close and Open and I've read Mystery and Style and Zan and This and RSD. I could go read more but I'm not. I need inner game work. If I can just get inner game going where I can come up with my own funny, playful, stuff on my own or out of the situation I'd be GOOD. I could then remember some of the crap that I learned and read and sprinkle that in there. So, where do I begin? I'm starting there.
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    Default Re: OK new into. 27 year old virgin needs SOCIAL HELP.

    I honestly think you need a mentor...a natural that you can get really tight with will help a TON. Remember, being social isn't really that scientific, it's just about trying to have fun with whatever situation you're in at the moment. Read 'how to win friends and influence people' by dale carnegie. The book's like 80 years old or something and sold 15 or 20 million copies and a fairly quick read. You'll be like...damn...duh!

    Besides that, it sounds like you need to "make" yourself. The thing about being decent w women is to BE who they want, not just faking it. Not saying that there isn't "acting" involved but that's the fun part man. It's not like work, it's more like another you or another side of you that comes out when you're around women. Since you've read a bunch of stuff already you've got the seed planted you need to implement.

    I just created a post called 'Advice from an about to be 30 year old' in which I spilled my guts on some basics that it took me my entire 20's to figure out since I was not a natural. The main points were to have your life together, BE a cool a$$ guy generally and also to have FUN with women. Make them have fun, screw around, say something crazy, do something wild, say something sexy (and believe it). It's a lot like having fun with your guy friends but things are a little more subtle. Women are perceptive and a sly smile goes a long way without saying a word. You can speak to them without a word sometimes. It's like a picture is worth a thousand worlds and the picture could be something you do or a facial expression, body language, a clever and slightly suggestive comment or anything like that. My battery is about to die & I got no charger so I'm out but I might come back for more on this.

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    culturedpearls Guest

    Default Re: OK new into. 27 year old virgin needs SOCIAL HELP.

    Get a life, dude. I mean, aside from work, find something else to do. Join a club or even do volunteer work. If you're picking up a hobby, make sure you also join a club for it so you actually meet people and interact.

    Weirder things have happened but as I see it, you have to have a social life first before you can get any kind of action. And since we're all late for Christmas, let's just target you on a first date by Valentines.

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    Angel902 Guest

    Default Re: OK new into. 27 year old virgin needs SOCIAL HELP.

    My friend im totally new to this level of 'Pick Up' but If you came from religious background given your age (assuming very strict) and more importantly you dont have friends that do not share your passion for women, don't loose your friends, friends are very important, but more importantly establsh new friends, friends that share your passion. Do it yourself, go and talk to guys make friends with dudes. Take up more sociable activities, Sport maybe? A macho sport possibly so one that breeds confidence and also benefits your physical attributes (based on what you have said).
    Sport brings out confidence, a disciplined sport is preferable.
    Better Inner peace, mind set etc.

    Recommended sports:
    Judo
    Karate
    Boxing
    wrestling
    Yoga

    whatever dude.

  5. #5
    Grimbo Guest

    Default Re: OK new into. 27 year old virgin needs SOCIAL HELP.

    Id recomend Wrestling and muay thai, and possibly bjj. You learn self defense, keep weight under control (YOU HAVE TO DO THAT LOL). I do all these, and I ooze self confidence when I step onto the mat. Also girls can see you in a wrestling singlet than ...but on a serious note, you will make many friends, you just seem to have a respect for someone who you just duked it out with for 6 minutes. Also, its just fun as hell

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    Raven Guest

    Default Re: OK new into. 27 year old virgin needs SOCIAL HELP.

    I highly recommend boxing, MMA, muay thai and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. A great fighter gym, such as mine, offers them all, and you can take them all. Number one, it will whip you into fantastic shape, number two, you will learn to be a fighter (hint: don't do it for recreation, do it for competition - they will drill you harder and you'll be treated like a real fighter - but you will need to fight people and take some hardcore beatings someday), and number three, chicks dig it. Tons of women come to my fighter gym, supposedly for yoga, but, lets get real, we know why they're at a mens fighting gym for "yoga and spinning..."

    Secondly, your religion can be a source of strength, particularly if you believe in the Lord Jesus Christ. Some Christian's need to get out of their judgmental, legalistic, non-Calvinistic churches and join a real body of believers who preach the Word of God faithfully. A great church can be an amazing place to meet really great, loyal, faithful, beautiful women. Although if you are truly a follower of Christ, you will not seek a "fark close," but a deep relationship leading to marriage. Enough proselytizing.

    Anyway, you need to start from square one. You have no friends, it's time to make 'em. Forget the bars and clubs right now. You want to focus on sports, volunteer work, church, and other things where you can meet friends. What are your hobbies? Maybe you like classic literature - a classic literature MeetUp.com group or something will get you meeting people - men and women alike. Try to think along those lines, and check out MeetUp.com. Consider taking a class. You just need to get out more and get involved in things that intrigue you and meet some like-minded people.

    Good luck!

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    Grimbo Guest

    Default Re: OK new into. 27 year old virgin needs SOCIAL HELP.

    Also, if you win fights and tournaments...chicks dig it. Girls love my NAGA swords and medals XD

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    Default Re: OK new into. 27 year old virgin needs SOCIAL HELP.

    The above advice is great.
    I'm going to say don't put any pressure on losing your V's. It's really not a big deal. Once you have popped it, you will just think... WTF, is that it?

  9. #9
    Instinct Guest

    Default Re: OK new into. 27 year old virgin needs SOCIAL HELP.

    Quote Originally Posted by compgeni View Post
    Hey guys. This is a new intro because I'm changing the way I do things.

    I'm Steve. I'm 27. And yes, I'm a virgin. I'm a bit short at 5'5. I was fat at 190lbs but am now a more respectable 155lbs, and getting in better and better shape every day.

    I need help not with just women and game but socially too. I dont have buds that go hit up the bars or clubs. I came from a VERY religious background and had it beat into me not to trust women or be alone with them, which is unfortunate. I want to be alone with women. I need some dudes to go hang out with. Although I could go to the bars alone and clubs, but I won't really have "friends" to go back to or a "pool party" on sunday to bring her to. Can I focus on just me and her? I suppose I'll still need dhv stories to tell her, to convey personality? Where should I begin? Id love to have farked a girl by Christmas, and/or have more women in my life!

    I'm one of those guys who has read everything, although I dont remember it all now. I know HBs and AFC and Close and Open and I've read Mystery and Style and Zan and This and RSD. I could go read more but I'm not. I need inner game work. If I can just get inner game going where I can come up with my own funny, playful, stuff on my own or out of the situation I'd be GOOD. I could then remember some of the crap that I learned and read and sprinkle that in there. So, where do I begin? I'm starting there.

    Join an MMA gym - its exactly what I did when I was you

  10. #10
    Grimbo Guest

    Default Re: OK new into. 27 year old virgin needs SOCIAL HELP.

    Best place to go if you are located in Maryland is Camp Springs, thats the team Lloyd Irvin Gym. Voted in the top 10 in the country. I go to the Aberdeen Branch of them . Go for the best, these guys help your self confience alot.


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