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    lil7tmac Guest

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    Iíve been hanging out with this girl for the past few weeks we would talk on the phone for hours and Iíve stayed with her a few nights but things went for a bad turn on me last weekend she went to hangout with some friends at IU for the weekend no big deal Iím not a jealous person but I tried to call her or text her over the weekend and didnít get a simple hi back, so now she calls me Monday to say hi, but I blow up on her for not calling me now I look like a jealous bf and I leave to conversion saying ďyou have my number call me if you want if not ohh well Iíll be ok and ill just see you aroundĒ and she hasnít called of text since what is my next move wait her out because they always give in or try and call her to patch things up.

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    No worries bro I been to these kind of situations before. How is your relationship towards her? Going by what you posted, it sounds like a fling rather than something committed. If there was nothing established then she can do whatever she wants and vice versa. Obviously it wasn't a good move to go on a rant just cause she didn't call you back. and from how you left the conversation kinda sealed the deal of breaking communications with her. At this moment I wouldn't even give it a thought to wait for her response or you to do something. This is where you move on to the next girl which would help levitate the emotional ties you even have (or had) with the last one.

    If you still want her part of your life then or apologize you can patch things up but you would automatically put you on the friend zone due to your past behavior. It's all up to you bro and good luck.

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    Thanks man Im going to move on to the next girl, its a small world we will run into each other agian and hopefully then ill be out of the friendzone

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    Call her in a couple of weeks and tell her you are willing to give her another chance. Laugh your ass off before calling. You want to sound as fun and nonconfrontational as possible.

    If she says something about the last time you spoke, or if you have to leave a message, I would throw out that the last time was awkward for both of us.

    If I was you leaving a message:
    Hey ________, I haven't seen you in a while, and I decided to give you another chance (smile while you say it). Things were awkward for both of us last time we talked, but no big deal. Hear from you soon or, in case this was a bad time, I will try again later.
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    Thanks man let me break down the whole relationship with her,

    she just got out of long-term relationship with one of my friends from high school she is 21 I’m 25 so she is in the mood to be single because she has never been single she is a very cool girl and I like to hang out with her but she lives two hours away I have made two trips in the past few weeks to stay with her we hangout then go to bed in bed we kiss and cuddle but no sex so I feel I’m in the friend zone a little bit but she also has a clean background she doesn’t mess around at all so I’m def. feeling her but if we dated it would be a long-distance relationship which I’m not digging also she works at hooters so she is always getting hit and someday someone will have the game to score her number I worry about that but now things are awkward we are at the stage where we are friends and it’s unclear what are next move is date or be friends the cards that I’m playing is not to be jealous and not blow her up let her come to me theory I care but I don’t mentality.

    Now I have an idea so tell me what you think I’m going to put her in the friend zone don’t allow her to put me in zone, my goal is over the next few weeks to get her to come down to Indy where I live take her out in a group setting and then act like I’m not that into her were just friends. But I need some help getting her to come to me what can I do and if there is any other way to make this chick dig me or not put in the friend zone let me know.

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    the friend zone card never works but in this case I think it’s the best move we live so far apart it keeps me from getting to emotionally attached it goes back to the saying a guy and a girl can’t be just friends forever because one will eventually fall for the other I just can’t be the one who falls that the only way this card works WHAT DO YOU THINK IS THE BST MOVE I WANT THIS GIRL BUT THERE ARE A LOT OF VARIABLE’S PLAY OUT

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    Default Re: FriendZone

    Quote Originally Posted by lil7tmac View Post
    Thanks man let me break down the whole relationship with her,

    ... (1)she is 21 I’m 25 ... (2)she lives two hours away ... (3)I have made two trips in the past few weeks to stay with her we hangout then go to bed in bed we kiss and cuddle but no sex so I feel I’m in the friend zone a little bit but she also has a clean background she doesn’t mess around at all ... (4)if we dated it would be a long-distance relationship which I’m not digging ... (5)she works at hooters so she is always getting hit and someday someone will have the game to score her number I worry about that...
    1. This does not seem significant to me.

    2&4. That is something you two can decide when/if you get to that point. It is an inconvenience, for sure, but not necessarily a deal-breaker. Don't dwell on this.

    3. Who initiated the kissing and cuddling? How passionate did it get? My guess is that you didn't lead her down the path you wanted to go.
    Here's what I would do:
    Next time you see her, find ways to dial up her sexual Tension. Words and actions. Such as, before you get to an intimate location, kiss her, but pull away early and without explanation. Later, get her too an intimate location and take charge. Kiss her passionately. Take your time. Women's most common complaint about men in the "bedroom" is we are always in a hurry. SLOW DOWN. Lead her to the bedroom. Kiss some more. Get hand-play involved, but not strenuously. Throw her on the bed and saddle-up. Kiss some more. Slowly start working your way down. Spend as much time as possible on her erogenous zones between her hip bones and her ears. Playfully tug her hair. Don't even think about her crotch. By now, she'll be wanting it as much as you. Make her wait. Pull off her pants. Ignore the area you just uncovered. Eventually, and you most likely will feel the heat from this, she will be so horny her body will not let her mind tell you "no". Start performing cunnilingus on her before she touches your cock. Bonus points if you get her to orgasm before she has seen your cock. After she comes, have the most wild night physically possible.

    *If at any point she tries to stop you or say anything, put your finger over her mouth and command silence. You need to be sensitive to her "I'm not a whore, NO" and her "I don't want to have sex with you, NO".
    **If she startes to try to do "something for you", stop her and command she acquiesces to you.
    ***The premise here is that YOU ARE IN CONTROL.

    4. See number "2".

    5. It takes a supremely confident man to have an attractive girlfriend. It can be hard, especially, if she is using her beauty in her job (what attractive woman isn't?). In the last year, a vast majortiy of the women I have gone out with have been bartenders or servers at bars/restaraunts. When I patronize the establishments they work at, I laugh at the guys hitting on them. They are not in my league. Even if they get her number, or even bed her, I got there first. Besides, if I'm there, I have her best attention. However, I do not interfere with their work. Sometimes, I act like I don't even know them and join in with the other guys hitting on her. Done correctly, they find this immensely amusing and will reward your fun behavior later. Never forget, their ability to make money is dependent on their ability to appear available and horny for everyone that walks in the door. If you can't handle that, avoid the place she is working or get a woman who works in a different industry. You will not only hurt yourself and your inner and outer image if you go in there and act a fool, but you will make her feel bad.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

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    hey thanks for the advice things are working out for me now i have control agian i didnt no just what to do at first so i froze her out for about 5 days until she gave in and call me i played everything off like nuthing never happen and she took the bait.


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