Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 4 of 4
  1. #1
    Sebastian Guest

    Default Hi Bill...looking to casually date multiple women

    Great to learn and share with all of you.

    I am 38y/o and have only known and experienced several long-term relationships (3+ years) which were all great and meaningful in their own way. But for the last 2 years I have decided to remain single in order to concentrate on building my companies.

    I would like to experience what it's like to casually date different women and just have fun. I feel I have excellent approach, confidence, charisma, presence, body language, etc. I have studied the community and what it means to live an Alpha lifestyle for years. Basically, the issue I keep running into is every woman I have dated recently has wanted a serious relationship with me (not what I am looking for at the moment). I don't know how to calibrate my desire for casually dating while keeping her interested. Whenever I have recently attempted this, the woman would always end up getting upset/disappointed as if we were already a couple and I was breaking up with her. I have been in situations where the woman "assumed" that we are a "couple" when there was no discussion or agreement on this.

    If you could offer any guidance at all on how best to "casually" date so the feeling is mutual with both parties, that would be wonderful. Do I need to make this clear upfront or just let it ride and not worry about the outcome?

    Thank you. Also, any info on day game and just meeting people out and about would be fantastic.

    Keep up the great work!
    All the Best,
    Sebastian

  2. #2
    ares is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 81, Level: 1
    Level completed: 62%, Points required for next Level: 19
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Posts
    10
    Points
    81
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    7

    Default Re: Hi Bill...looking to casually date multiple women

    Sebastian,

    I have many of the same questions...shame nobody responded to your post.

    It's been a couple of years - did you have any new insight to share?

    Ares

  3. #3
    Casio is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 258, Level: 5
    Level completed: 16%, Points required for next Level: 42
    Overall activity: 68.2%
    Achievements:
    250 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Posts
    30
    Points
    258
    Level
    5
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    16

    Default Re: Hi Bill...looking to casually date multiple women

    Hi Ares. I suppose Sebastian its not already here because this was posted several years ago. First of all. There is something that I call Verbal Escalation. If the words, flirts and rapport that you are using is making her know that you are boyfriend material and that you are looking for a relationship she would probably think that. What I would do is before I meet a girl I ask them if their single, as the conversation goes by I tell them that I am single and that I enjoy being single and that I don't want any girlfriend for now. That would clear her thoughts and let her know what you want. Hope this helps. Take care man.

  4. #4
    ares is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 81, Level: 1
    Level completed: 62%, Points required for next Level: 19
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Posts
    10
    Points
    81
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    7

    Default Re: Hi Bill...looking to casually date multiple women

    Good point Casio - thanks. I think I am shy about doing this right away, but you're right, and I probably do it because I'm used to using relationship potential as bait. Imagine it's a very common problem.


Similar Threads

  1. PUA Bill
    By admin in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 04-27-2013, 10:51 AM
  2. MLTR: Multiple Long Term Relationships - tips!!!
    By Sniper NYC in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 5
    Last Thread: 02-11-2013, 02:43 PM
  3. hey bill!
    By InTheMaking in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 10-28-2010, 11:10 PM
  4. Guide : First Date Do's and Don'ts For Women
    By DatingRuleBook in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 01-09-2010, 01:26 AM
  5. Multiple Threads
    By Bill Preston in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 11-21-2008, 09:58 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com