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  1. #1
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    Default major sticking point with boyfriends

    Hey guys new to the forum but have been a moderately active pua for a year or so. I don't have a problem in getting girls attracted to me, the only issue is they mostly have boyfriends...not wanting to limit my options what is the best way to deal with this? For example a girl i work with who i have been out clubbing with several times lately has suddenly stopped texting. What can i do about this? A similar thing is happening with another girl with a bf, she texts back but will rarely meet me when its just us 2.

    I know some will say go for single girls but there are rarely many good looking single females. Your help would be appreciated

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    Default Re: major sticking point with boyfriends

    Hey man... I have to ask. Do you really want to pursue a girl with a boyfriend? If she does decided to be with you.. you will NEVER be able to trust her...

    Just saying...

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    Default Re: major sticking point with boyfriends

    You know what, I've had this trouble too recently - I went through a patch where, for some reason taken HB's started flocking to me, It got to the point where I picked up some spanish HB9 who, after kiss closing turned round and showed me she had a ring on her finger (something I should have picked up through observation - great pick up story non the less tho, might have to give a report on that one when i find time) when i thought 'eff this' and started working on some ways to work out why the hell this was happening

    Either way, Bills right, attached girls are usually FAR more hassle than they're worth!

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    Default Re: major sticking point with boyfriends

    But Bill in his defense isnt pulling a girl away from a boyfriend no different that out alphaing another dude in a club and pulling a girl away from him? Maybe I have been reading too much of Brad's stuff, but if he wants her, she is attracted to him, and he can hold onto her. Doesnt mean he should have the right to get her. This maybe dark but I have started to realize that yes there are guys that are going to out game me but there are some that I can game and know I can save her from a tool. I would much rather be prince charming and save her from the tool than leave her to be disappointed and feeling used later on.

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    Default Re: major sticking point with boyfriends

    yea but in bills defense what happens if u wanna marry her? do you really wanna worry about someone out gaming you for the rest of your life? however im all for tryin to get with taken girls, just dont get too attachted to em

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    Default Re: major sticking point with boyfriends

    I suppose it takes me a little longer to judge if a girl is girlfriend or marriage worthy, honestly I'm 19 so cut me a little slack on the marriage question :P, but the point is if he has the ability to get her and keep her then there should be no problems. Yes there's alway the worry of him being out gamed. But have you ever noticed married women still read romance novels to satisfy themselves sexually when their husbands should be or they find something to play on the side with somebody secretly. Its a matter of being a man and being the thing that can satify her every desire and keep her coming back for more.

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    Default Re: major sticking point with boyfriends

    BF's are not a sticking point, lol!

    But hey bro, I had the same problem when I first started out!

    I tried stealing 2 girls away from their BF. But I realized it's real bad karma. You reap what you sow, always. It's way easier to find beautiful women without BF's than it is to get one away from a BF. Plus, you're just hurting another man. I would find it hard to trust a fellow man who does that to someone. We need to respect people, even if we don't know them, or they are not our friend. We need to love people and not desire to cause pain for our own pleasure. Stealing a girl is like robbing a bank, you're hurting someone for your own benefit.

    Anyway, I admonish you to keep your chin up. While I thought this was a problem before, I kept meeting women, and I now feel the opposite is true. Most of the hot women I know are single. You need to keep enlarging your social circle and talking to women and you'll meet many hot girls who are single. Also, consider POF and OkCupid! So many hot girls online who are single.

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    Default Re: major sticking point with boyfriends

    haha lionheart i feel ya, im only 24 so im not looking for marriage either. but i was just throwing that out there! i will say tho even if your giving the girl something she wants, the guy you took her from may not be exactly pleased with you. to add on to what raven said. some guys if there girl cheats or leaves them for someone else will go out of their way to try and fight you or do something to hurt you. quick story, i had a window smashed out of my car by a kid who had already broke up with his girl for a month or so before i even hung out with her. after i f closed her a couple times, she ended up going back out with him. he didnt appreciate the game.

    and raven you are completely true, there are soo many beautiful single girls out there! there really is no need to game girls with boyfriends.

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    Default Re: major sticking point with boyfriends

    I say don't shit in your own backyard and stop flirting with the colleague. Instead, be friends with her and get her to introduce you to her AVAILABLE friends.

    Not getting involved with taken girls is not limiting your options, it's inviting good karma.


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